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Leopards Ate My Face

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[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 20 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

People who voted for the Leopard Eating People’s Paces party suddenly shocked when the leopard eats their face.

And sadly, most won’t learn that lesson.

[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago

"Actually I like having my face eaten."

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago

Nice watermark

[–] frozenpopsicle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 hours ago

Jaguar problem?

[–] TonyTonyChopper@mander.xyz 20 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

"Farmer" and "White". Name a more American duo

[–] slampisko@lemmy.world 8 points 2 hours ago

"Things that really should not be run for profit" and "running them for profit anyway because socialism bad"

[–] ZeffSyde@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Guns and Ammo.

Hotdogs and beer?

[–] Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Schadenfreude!

ETA: I’ll take the downvotes on this one. Shower your disapproval. Fuck this lady and her leopard eaten face.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 9 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I don't really feel happy for anybody in this case. Everybody loses. We can only hope that this person learned their lesson.

[–] Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 5 hours ago

Absolutely agreed - her situation is a shit one, and I hope she learned her lesson. She chose her journey, though, in the face of all the contrary evidence.

[–] LANIK2000@lemmy.world 18 points 6 hours ago

Rules for thee, but not for me.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Kissaki@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago

If she waited it out, she and the fetus could suffer tremendously. “The thing [a doctor] said was, ‘There are things worse than death, and I have seen it,’” Farmer recounted.

Damn. Feels like it could be a good quote to oppose anti-abortion.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 41 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The Only Moral Abortion is My Own.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 18 points 8 hours ago
[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 171 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I love that they referred her to an anti-abortion crisis center, because there's a 99% chance they'll just tell her the same "pro-life" garbage she's been spewing and send her ass home.

Remember, God makes no mistakes 🤗

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 90 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (6 children)

I really do hate myself for a lack of sympathy in this situation, but these people need to experience what they’re doing to everyone else.

What’s sad is that people who agree with her won’t see the threat to her life as a valid reason either. They don’t know her so they don’t care for her. They’ll lump her in with the people they torment outside of Planned Parenthood regularly.

Just another woman who spread her legs and is too cowardly to accept the will of god.

I’ll be honest, I’m burned out. I need a break from morons and their stories. I really do.

[–] damnedfurry@lemmy.world 11 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I’ll be honest, I’m burned out. I need a break from morons and their stories. I really do.

You need to stop going out of your way to doomscroll on social media, then. It's ultimately entirely in your power to not be exposed to them.

I'm being serious. It's not good for you--social media makes it extremely easy to be exposed to negativity 24/7 if you're looking for it, since you're 1 person in a world of over 8 billion. You don't have to get even close to 1% of the people being assholes, for this to be not only possible, but trivially easy.

The human psyche is literally not designed to withstand the kind of barrage technology has made possible. Please do not feel guilty about giving yourself a break at times, to say the very least.

[–] rhadamanth_nemes@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for this (I'm not the op). While I tend to agree that doomscrolling doesn't help my mental health, I'm not sure how to square burying my head in the sand vs not paying attention to the crazy shit going on.

I don't expect an answer or anything, just venting. I feel powerless and my taxes are apparently going to fund a concentration camp.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 27 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I've given up on being sympathetic for people who actively try to put these things in place. Like, I'm just jaded now. You voted for this. Congratulations, if this is fatal for your stupid decisions, that's on you. I'm sympathetic to the people with brains who knew this would happen, those people get my sympathy and caring.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 15 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I felt similar about people asking for the vaccine right before they went on the ventilator. Something like 3m people in the US died from Covid.

[–] Tinidril@midwest.social 2 points 5 hours ago

It's been estimated that there were at least 232k preventable deaths because people didn't get vaccinated. That doesn't include people who suffered permanent damage or long-COVID.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 13 points 10 hours ago

Don’t feel bad. Everyone has limits. At some point you have to worry about yourself and those around you.

[–] jumperalex@lemmy.world 36 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

I have accepted that two things can be trust at once: I can be sad for her and amused at the leopard eating her face. I have no problem containing both of those emotions at the same time with hating myself one ounce.

[–] Clent@lemmy.world 20 points 10 hours ago

She is the leopard eating her face. I see no reason to be sad. She is dying for her beliefs, a martyr.

It wasn't part of her plan but (her) God chose her for this. We should she be happy. She should be happy. This is (her) God's will.

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[–] TodaviaTyler@lemmy.world 21 points 10 hours ago

Classic FAFO

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 212 points 16 hours ago (5 children)

Privileged people do get an exception - they can afford to fly to another state for an abortion.

People like this think they're part of the in group because they're white or christian, but the only war is class war. To our rulers we're all the enemy.

[–] st3ph3n@midwest.social 157 points 15 hours ago (14 children)

My fucking Trumpy brother in law has this attitude. He lives in the south, votes for Trump, and has a wife, two daughters, and a son. His wife has had a couple of complicated pregnancies that, had they happened now in the place they currently live, could well have resulted in her death. His attitude when asked 'what if one of your daughters gets raped?' is to say he can just fly her somewhere else to get an abortion, because he has money. Fuck you, dude.

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[–] circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org 19 points 11 hours ago (11 children)

This may get downdooted to oblivion, but I think some of this is human nature. It is abhorrent, and something we need to strive to fix, but it is rather natural for people to think that their own situation is typical -- because for them, it is. Every exemplar that a privileged person will have is also a privileged exemplar -- until, of course, something like this happens.

And as a further consequence, it is extremely difficult to convince someone that their personal situation is not the norm. Everyone wants to be the main character and ultimately believes that they are.

Not sure what the solution is.

[–] Kissaki@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago

I don't think it's more human mature than the opposite is.

Most of us are capable of reasoning and of empathy. We can hear a doctor say "there's cases where it's necessary" and think "yeah, makes sense" or "I trust their expertise".

Not being able to see past oneself seems like a very limited view. There's reasons for that of course. but it's a failure of education and social surroundings. And it's not inherent.

[–] Soleos@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

This is an explanation of human perception and behaviour, there is nothing controversial about it and easily understood. It is also true that if you stick someone in a creepy haunted house they will naturally feel scared even though it's Halloween and it's perfectly safe. The issue is not that humans have these natural tendencies that lead to logical fallacies, the issue is that humans have the capacity to be meta aware of them, process them, and situate them appropriately--skills developed through education and practice/experience--yet we have sociopolitocal movements that encourage the opposite for the benefit of the rich and powerful.

[–] Saleh 3 points 5 hours ago

I get your point, but i think people are not consistent with this. Who gets or doesnt get sympathy is entirely emotional.

Ive had people say that refugees are at fault for not getting their papers in order in time and shut be deportet over it and then go on to talk about how for them as citizens it is impossible with the low staffed and inefficient government offices these days.

They willfully ignore that their problems with the bureaucracy could exist for other people too. And we are not even talking about acknowledgong it to be worse. Just simply transferring their life experience onto other people like you describe.

[–] superkret 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Just for your info: There is no "downdooted to oblivion" on Lemmy. Up- and downvotes for comments have almost no effect.

[–] circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Yes thanks, and I know that. I'm not going for updoots, but I do like to see them.

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Gotta get that dopamine where you can.

[–] backgroundcow@lemmy.world 10 points 9 hours ago

Reading.

We need everyone to read more books. A wide variety of stories on a wide variety of topics by a wide variety of authors, all with different backgrounds and ideas. We must read stories that let us temporarily step into the mind and experiences of other people, who aren't us, to train our brains the ability to understand the plights of others. Books of human stories, as opposed to movies, doom-scrolling TikTok, etc., seems uniquely suited for this kind of training of empathy, because the stories are executed inside our own brains.

I'm willing to bet that these why-are-the-leopards-suddenly-eating-my-face? the-only-moral-abortion-is-my-abortion type people have read distinctly less, or at least far less varied, stories than us who look at them and wonder how it is possible to be so unable to put themselves in the shoes of anyone but themselves.

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