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[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 10 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

It's even more acceptable to half-ass your job.

They're paying you the minimum they can get away with, so pay them back in kind.

[–] hydrospanner@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Hear hear!

When you bust your ass all year for that great review and much needed raise...only to go in for your evaluation and be told, "Great job! Unfortunately due to budget cuts and corporate policy, we can only give you a 1.5% raise, but you're welcome!"

Don't tell them, but remember that.

Remember that regardless of the work you give them, they're only paying you 1.5% more. And that's not even factoring in ~~information~~ inflation.

At the most generous, you should only give them 1.5% more productivity than it takes to not get fired. If you look at it based on value...the value of your time and experience and productivity against the purchasing power of your take home pay... you're getting a pay cut vs inflation as their way of thanking you.

As such, cut your productivity, attention to detail, reliability, and shits given by the same amount as the purchasing power you're earning.

They call it quiet quitting, but in reality it's the market economy working both ways. If they're buying less from you, give them less.

[–] RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Are you telling me I installed Arch (btw) for no reason??

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 7 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

It said do a hobby for the fun of it, not create pain and suffering

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[–] limonade@jlai.lu 9 points 21 hours ago

I love to draw but I have zero artist taste.
I love to paint even though it is usually ugly.

I did a few things a consider interesting but mostly pieces my friends think is made by school children until tell otherwise and I don't even keep the ones I consider ugly.
But I have fun at painting not I make a beautiful painting.
And I have fun every time I paint even when I put my ugly looking result straight into the garbage bin.

[–] greedytacothief@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I think some people are misunderstanding what this is trying to say. It's not saying that you should always take the easy route with your hobbies. It is not saying that you shouldn't learn the "right" way to do your hobby.

It's saying that it's just a fucking hobby. It's purpose is to be enjoyed not mastered. Do it the hard way when you're feeling it. But don't force yourself to struggle because someone on the Internet said that this way is how you learn the most efficiently or get the best results.

[–] Akuchimoya@startrek.website 5 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

I feel this so much. I got into stamp collecting, and I totally enjoy stamps and mail and all, but (old) people are so pretentious about it. The worst are the total hypocrites about it, too.

"I got into stamps when I was young, but I stopped when I went to university/started working/had a family because I didn't have time for it, and came back to it after I retired.

"Philately is supposed to be academic and scholarly. You're not a real philatelist if you're not doing original research.

"Young people just don't have the patience for stamps!

"The hobby is dying, why don't young people want to collect stamps anymore??"

Actually, a lot of people do and share lots of stuff online (where the old people are not seeing it and thus is not happening). We're just not writing 16-page papers about them (which is the standard a expected thing to do in "philately").

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 7 points 23 hours ago

It's saying that it's just a fucking hobby. It's purpose is to be enjoyed not mastered.

Yeah, too many people preemptively gatekeep themselves: you're not a real (hobbyist) unless you master (narrow part of the hobby), so you're not allowed to take up that hobby until you're ready to commit to that boring/tedious/difficult part.

I play chess and I don't know the names of openings (and still have a lot of trouble with following notation). Who gives a shit, I'm not going to win tournaments. But I still have fun with it, occasionally play strangers in the park, and have been having fun teaching my kids how to play.

I half-ass my fitness and workout routine. Sometimes I go months in between gym sessions, and sometimes I go 6x a week for months, break some PRs, and then go on living my life. Sometimes I run 500 miles in a year, sometimes I run 10. Whatever. Life gets busy, and my own preferences shift between whether I want to do cardio, weights, sports, yoga, metcon/CrossFit style classes, or just sit on my ass and get weak and fat for a year. I'm in my 40's, so I've been all over the place on all of these things.

I can watch a TV show without needing to start from the pilot and watching every episode that came out. I can watch a movie without trying to understand every reference to everything else in the same cinematic universe. I enjoy watching basketball and football even when I can't name all the players, much less their whole career histories.

And after all that, a funny thing starts to happen. You find that you actually are pretty good at certain things compared to the public, even though you didn't wholeheartedly devote all your effort to that thing.

I like being a dilettante. It's awesome and I'd recommend this lifestyle to anyone. The best way to enjoy a hobby is to be unburdened by expectations.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The internet has made serial hobbying so much easier. "Back in the day", it was much harder to expand your skills, so you learned a few things really well.

Now there's more opportunity to find something that fits your style, so half-assing is really just the trial period before you move on.

As a "still a serial hobbiest", It's great.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 9 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

Growing up in the 90s, there were so many hobbies that were unobtainable.

Like, I was a kid and didn't have anybody to teach me about trees. So they recommend you go to a library and get some books on trees. But the books are either at a college level, or something extremely basic. And your support was only as helpful as the librarian. So they knew zilch about the topic, you're fucked.

Today, you wanna know about trees? Visit a wiki. Watch YouTube videos. Ask AI. Go to the library with actual resources to get the right books or audio books.

Huge opportunity and a wealth of information.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 2 points 17 hours ago

Exactly. I'm an 80s and 90s kid.

[–] pseudo@jlai.lu 5 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

I'm just like that. We should open !serialhobbiest to talk about and share the result of our last hobby.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I really like that!

A while back, Someone shared their collection of radioactive ceramics. Opened up a new world for me!

[–] pseudo@jlai.lu 2 points 19 hours ago

Waouh! I want to learn that.

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[–] umbraroze@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

I'm an enthusiast amateur photographer with nice DSLR and a few mirrorless cameras. And I shoot a lot on automatic. It's fine. Semiauto and manual is usually only needed if you have specific ideas about exposure.

Also you can fix soooo many mistakes in the post. When people tell me their cellphone photos look naff, I tell them to just try levels / curves / white balance tools, and those are in every photo editor. Will help a lot.

[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago

I feel this with reading.

Personally I've never understood the flex around how many books someone has read in a year. I mean if you are a fast reader/comprehend-er then you be you. Yet I feel that most people are just reading book after book so they can get to some arbitrary number by the end of an arbitrary time frame.

But, hey if setting a goal of reading x number of books in y amount of time makes you happy - fucking go for it.

[–] centipede_powder@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Wait, there is more than one type of braid? i thought i was hot shit for knowing how to braid a girls hair.

[–] pancakes@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 day ago (5 children)

As someone who occasionally does professional photography/ filming, the auto setting on your camera is fine if you're just snapping pics. Where you'd want manual is if you were taking a larger series of photos and wanted to apply the same effects/ processing to the batch.

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

As someone who never did photography professionally but as a hobby, I learned the manual settings when automatic failed to take a good photo.

[–] pancakes@sh.itjust.works 4 points 20 hours ago

You're totally right, but I would also say this is a great point for understanding/ learning photo editing software. More as a tool in your pocket so that when you don't get a nice photo, you know what is or isn't fixable.

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[–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 55 points 1 day ago (3 children)

me: does a thing because I like it and I get kinda not shit at it.

Everyone else: HaVe You cOnSIDErEd DoinG ThaT PRofEssIONaLLY? YOu cOULd mAKE so MUCH MOneY.!1!

me: fuck off. I have a job. I do this for me.

everyone else: Do What yOU LOve anD You'lL neVER worK A dAy IN Your life.!

me: turn your hobby into your job and you don't have a hobby anymore. There's no faster way to hate your passion than to monetize it.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 5 points 23 hours ago

That's why it's funny that the bicycling community talks of "dentists" with all their gear. The people best equipped to really pursue that hobby wholeheartedly are the people who make a shitload of money doing something completely different.

[–] GoTeamBoobies@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

I lost interest in photography for several years because of this. And because I'm a slow learner, I did the same thing with woodworking An extra few bucks doing a random thing or two is nice, but the side hustle gig mentality is toxic

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There’s a word for that: jobby

As you said, it’s not healthy to turn every hobby into a jobby. The best thing about hobbies is the lack of urgency and technical criteria. The whole point is to do it for fun.

[–] MCHEVA4EVA@lemmy.world 107 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Perfect is the enemy of good.

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[–] JPSound@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I'm a 38 yo straight dude with a potty mouth and a bad attitude. I love sewing. Idky and I'm terrible at it but it gives me the good feels so I practice as much as my brain will allow.

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[–] xorollo@leminal.space 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Also, speaking of tracing stuff. Your phone is basically a light table! You can pull up the picture on your phone and trace it. Use a light touch so you don't accidentally zoom. Computer monitors work with bigger stuff. I did that with this pigeon meme, and I'm pretty thrilled with it.

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Random picture from a non-native: what does "tracing a picture" mean in this context?

I couldn't find the meaning

[–] TBi@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It means putting a blank piece of paper over the picture and using the picture to help you draw on the sheet. So instead of free-drawing a pigeon you are copying/tracing it.

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Ahhh, thanks! It's important not to scratch the screen, though - paper makes a poor screen protection :D

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Most phone screens today are very hard. A graphite pencil will not do permanent damage. Avoid using metal tip pens and you should be fine.

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 3 points 21 hours ago

Aight, the more I know :)

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 85 points 1 day ago (14 children)

I "do astrophotography."

...I strap my phone to a telescope and I've been loving it lol

[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Strap your phone to a telescope?

So it's a tele-phone?

Wait a min....

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[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 79 points 1 day ago (1 children)

God this is so true. I teach compuster science, and I always make a point in one lecture to show the students how many tabs full of basic questions I have to open when grading their assignments. Nobody can memorize all of this, and it's so important to shake off that feeling of not being good enough just because you have to look something up.

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[–] hardcoreufo@lemmy.world 41 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've been playing guitar for 25 years and I kinda suck. I've forgotten everything I know about music theory, I don't know any songs and my fingers just don't move that fast. But I enjoy coming home and making some noise for 15-20 minutes. I just move my hands around and make a lot of bad sounds until I start making a good sounding riff then I'm done.

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[–] Donebrach@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

This is the end result of no one actually understanding the notion of “practice makes perfect” and probably some other shit that kids are internalizing these days that I am not privy to.

It’s also really helpful to read again.

No one is perfect, people just get good at stuff by doing it a lot (and can also get worse if they stop doing it). So many friends of mine are always talking about doing creative stuff and how hard it is and yet they never actually just take the first step to try anything.

[–] MacNCheezus@lemmy.today 9 points 1 day ago

Hey kids, do you like violence?

Wanna see me stick nine inch nails through each one of my eyelids?

Wanna copy me and do exactly like I did?

Try 'cid and get fucked up worse than my life is?

[–] erev@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Anyone who tells you to manually set everything in photography is silly. I took a photography class and made sure to thoroughly read a professional photographer's breakdown of my camera and how to operate it.

The only reason I've seen suggested why you should use manual mode is if you want a very specific shot that the automatic settings won't allow you to get. You know, like everything else. Automatic modes (i.e. aperture modes mainly) are there for a reason and while it's good to know how to manually set your parameters and read the light meter, you realistically don't want to be fiddling with your camera while whatever subject you want to photograph is potentially changing (for portrait or still shots its not as bad, but if you need to do any form of quick shooting you're only hampering yourself). Do I still use manual mode sometimes? Of course! I was taught how to use it and when I need it it is extremely helpful. But I typically only need it for night photography or if I want a specific effect (which can often be achieved with shutter mode but I never really use that).

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