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Recently, I've been trying to find ways to manage my time better. The biggest problem is that I would get stuck in YouTube binge-watching sessions that I couldn't pry myself away from. I would constantly be looking for the next thing to click on that was just interesting enough to keep my attention.

As I became more and more disillusioned with my situation, I began to realize just how severe the problem had become. I spent most of my free time just watching videos. Not socializing, not making anything cool, not learning any new hobbies. Just YouTube. Was this the life I really wanted? How many of those videos do I even remember anyway? Oh god. Thousands of hours of my life are being lost forever... I HAVE to stop this. How?

Analyzing my behavior quickly revealed the culprit — YouTube video recommendations keep tempting me with content that I never planned on watching. My eyes would always be drawn to the wall of titles and thumbnails for me to click on next, and that kept me in a vicious cycle. Click on a mildly entertaining video, look for another mildly entertaining recommended video, click. Rinse and repeat.

What if instead of doing that, I threw it all out and only chose a select few really good channels to watch? Oh wait, that's called the subscription feed!

I went through all of the channels I subscribed to over the years. Disturbingly, I found that I didn't actually care about most of them. It was cheap, mass-produced content to make the creator lots of money, and it was just barely entertaining enough to keep my attention.

I removed 95% of my subscriptions and kept only the best channels. These were often beautifully presented, thought-provoking STEM content, which prioritized quality over quantity. Now, instead of a binge of 30 videos, my subscription feed for the day had... just three. That's it. After those three videos, I would be done for the day.

There was only one thing left to do now — delete the recommendations.

I wrote a hacky script that simply removed the recommended video column and end screen, and finally, I added the YouTube homepage in a webpage blocking plugin so I only looked at the subscription feed. Just like that, I had fixed YouTube. There were no more distracting recommendations. The choice of what to watch was back in my hands.

It only took 20 minutes before I grew completely bored and wanted to do something else. But that's not a bug; it's a feature. That sense of boredom is there to push me to do something meaningful with my life — make something, pick up a new hobby, or meet people. The fact that I felt it so strongly meant that my plan was working. All of those things I always wanted to do... now I can actually do them. As long as I never allow endless scroll feeds and recommendation algorithms to rule my life again. But knowing the damage they've done to me, I never want to go back.

Because to be free, I ultimately need to make the Internet boring again.

What about you? Do you have measures to prevent the Internet from taking away all of your free time?

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If you turn off your watch history, YouTube gives you no recommendations and the main page is just a blank page.

[–] sprigatito_bread@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Thanks! (I feel so dumb now lol)

Definitely wouldn't be the first time I immediately jumped to scripting instead of finding an easier way to do something!

I know that feeling. Scripting is fun!

[–] Whatevster@lemmy.today 15 points 2 weeks ago

It’s honestly one of the reasons I love Lemmy. After about 10 minutes of scrolling I start seeing all the posts from yesterday and it makes it super easy to put down and move on.

[–] zelifcam@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

This is why I self host invidious. I enjoy YouTube content, but I want a clean, targeted experience when viewing videos.

This is also why I self host FreshRSS and use a client like Lire. I want clean and targeted news feeds.

This is why I haven’t had cable in 20 years and self hosted my own videos by legally purchasing dvds/blurays and ripping them. ( later adding ad free subscriptions ). I hate commercials with a passion and refuse to experience them ever again.

All of this has allowed me to have a very controlled experience and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

[–] Saltarello@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

For YouTube I hate the algorithm so i disabled YouTube app & only watch through browser. Of course mobile & desktop browsers are running uBlock Origin, Sponsorblock & DeArrow.

I never sign in. Instead of subscribing to channels or "watch later" I'm an avid user of Joplin notes so i have a specific note for YouTube for subscriptions & for any interesting looking videos I stumble across. The note is broken into video time length so i can watch something depending on available time, which helps if mindlessly watching stuff. Joplin syncs to all devices.

Its an extra few seconds for me to add a url & title to the note but its second nature now. The beauty is I only see stuff I'm interested in not crap they think I want to see. Plus this way its easy to save links for any video site.

Another thing I do is for audio style videos I've enabled background play so i can listen at night with a timer when going to sleep rather than having to sit & watch a video.

[–] Spearman3618@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Rss reader. Nowadays I do not find myself wasting time surfing the web. I will check my feed once or twice a day and thats it. You will have everything in one place yt channels, blogs, articles etc.

[–] mark@programming.dev 4 points 2 weeks ago

Same here! I use nothing but RSS feeds for everything. I even use them to keep up with new arrivals on sites I shop on. They're 🔥

[–] PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com 6 points 2 weeks ago

I use Enhancer For YouTube to remove hide almost everything except the video. I even keep the comments collapsed.

It's such a nice experience.

[–] BlastboomStrice@mander.xyz 4 points 2 weeks ago

When Youtube removed dislikes from showing, apart from putting the dislike plugin on my browser, I went and disabled the youtube app on my phone. I installed newpipe which doesnt use any account. I never imported my subscriptions to the app on my phone and I set the homescreen to show an empty screen.

I used to spend ~1-2hours watching memes or whatever (I used to watch more serious stuff in the past, related to physics and such). Almost as soon as I made the change, I vary rarely watch youtube. It is ~usually stuff I search up (~mainly music when I choose not to use Innertune or listen to my local stuff) or stuff people share with me. This week I watched on average about 7mins of yt per day. It's liberating

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

You can also block the web element with ublock origin

Or write a script that automatically downloads your subscriptions to a jellyfin server.

Invidious is nice but google does sometimes do stuff that breaks it. Yt-dlp scripts on the other hand are solid.

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

https://github.com/woefe/ytcc

Not a great design, but does the main job of getting updates and running yt-dlp.

[–] jaxxed@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I think that there is an android app, perhaps "pipeline", which is YouTube, with a subscription list separate from your yt account. Not sure how it handles ads though.

[–] I_Miss_Daniel@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Voyager app with continuous scrolling turned off. Once I've read a few pages, I'm done for a while.

For facebook, the search icon shows which groups have new posts since last visit, so that too has a finite end.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

I only use YouTube Shorts Redirect because as soon as I click on a short somehow 2 hours are gone. With this extension shorts are viewed like normale YouTube videos and you are not trapped in this neverending scrolling view.

[–] psud@aussie.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

I started using YouTube back when it was new. When the default view was the videos from the channels you subscribed to, and I have kept that pattern.

It seems to work, except for the few weeks after a holiday I empty my YouTube, nebula, and podcast feeds early each day

[–] MadBob@feddit.nl 2 points 2 weeks ago

I definitely agree that making the internet boring again makes it less addictive. I'd use Invidious or Piped if I could get the subscriptions to work.

[–] Tracked@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I use YouTube all day. I just couldn't do this, otherwise I have nothing else to do aside this and gaming.