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Most people just want a good life. If we stopped seeing each other as the enemies the world could be better.

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Like South Park on religion: "you're all so focused on the stupid little differences that you're not seeing the big, stupid similarities."

[–] demesisx@infosec.pub 24 points 4 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

It’s by design. ~~Divide and conquer~~ Combine and conquer has been the playbook since they (anti-labor think tanks like the Progressive Policy Institute and others that seek to keep labor infighting) started studying group psychology.

FPTP contributes more than its share to the tribalism and poor infighting we see in the US and the UK.

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[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

Let's just be friends as they take away my rights and everyone I love rights away, we shouldn't be enemies as they hunt down and murder someone for "existing"

Maybe we shouldn't be friends with the enemy and fight against the regime?

This is one of the was Nazis came into power, by manipulating the mass thinking "oh we should all be friends" and now look what happened.

-a trans non-binary disabled person

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 17 points 4 days ago

There aren't only two sides to every issue. Thinking like that is limiting.

[–] yetiftw@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

solidarity means solidarity. other working class people are not your enemy (re: 1984). the all or nothing mindset accomplishes nothing besides closing your mind off to the plights and perspectives of others.

-also trans and disabled

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 6 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

Seeing people hold this kind of views is fucking depressing.

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[–] Jonnyprophet@lemmy.world 44 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Amen.

What the people who want to control us don't want us to realize is that you have a lot more in common with the Chinese/Russian/Ukrainian/Mexican/Indian working class... Factory worker/programmer/hard-working house wife... Then you do with your own political leaders and billionaires. People with servants who don't ever worry about bills. (Biden, Trump, Harris, Vance, Elon, Gates, Bezos, etc)... Don't look at the foreigners as different and the enemy... Look at the Rich and the Politicians (who want us to blame the foreigners)

[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 18 points 4 days ago

No war but class war.

[–] radicalautonomy@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I don't see MAGA people as the enemy because they want to pay less in taxes. I see them as the enemy because they don't think my kids should exist in society and are actively passing legislation to make it so.

Delete this shit take.

[–] kshade@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It may be more directed at them than you.

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[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 4 days ago

Username checks out

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 20 points 4 days ago (1 children)

The major difference is money. We should be banding together against the rich, but instead we distract ourselves with what we look like, what we sound like, where we come from, what team (sports, town, city, state, country, ...) we support, which sex we have, and a bunch of other things that divide us.

[–] Katrisia@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

Aliens are here to unite us (/s).

[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 19 points 4 days ago

I only see people as an enemy if they've declared themselves as such. I'm not gonna make the first move, life is too short to make enemies with everyone I meet. That said, if you've got a swastika tattooed on your forehead then I'm gonna take that as a declaration that you're my enemy.

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

True. For example we are all made of ~~delicious~~ nutritious meats.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago

Bro discovered Christianity

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

nah.

I can't have empathy for fuckheads that want to kill and imprison people based on their sexual preferences or their identity.

I refuse to subject myself to the torture of "working together" with people with fascist ideologies.

I cannot, and will not, coexist with Nazis.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

I think op meant more along the lines of normal, everyday people, not radical extremists who hate everyone that isn't like them.

and by normal, I mean non hate driven people. I believe everyone is weird in some way, there is no "normal".

the way I described it to my son is everyone has the same right to be happy as he does, you don't get to dictate that to anyone. we love you for your weirdness and expect the same for anyone else.

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[–] SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee 3 points 3 days ago

I think if you peel back the ego, the "self" is just obligations that we've made to try to create an "identity" like "I have to draw I'm an artist". "Oh, I have to go to school because I'm a smart person and I don't want to XYZ."

It's all just fluff, or an illusion. If we were to truly be free of all obligations we would find out quickly that we are all the same consciousness wearing different masks. I am me, and I am you, and you are me. If you were to be able to switch perspectives with someone else I'd be surprised if it felt any different than being in your own body.

[–] Vanshaj@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

There is an old saying where I live:

वसुधैव कुटुम्बकम् (Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam)

This means, the world is one family.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 6 points 4 days ago

This is something we all need to remember

Have empathy and realize that people can have there own views. They aren't dumb because they disagree with you

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 days ago

If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us shall we not revenge?

[–] z3rOR0ne@lemmy.ml 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

I have been struggling with this lately. I am staunchly anti violence and anti war, and yet, I am conflicted on how far I truly would be willing to go to cull classism, fascism, racism, transphobia , homophobia, misogyny, and pedophilia from the world.

These things are abhorrent to me, and I wonder how much of my humanity I'd be willing to sacrifice in exchange for even one of these to no longer being in existence amongst the ranks of humanity.

How much good does pacifism give to the world in promoting the better angels of our nature? How much harm does it do when those same principles allow the worst among us to march down our roads and drag away our loved ones in the night?

Two scenes from media I consume have lately continually resurfaced in my mind. One is this scene from Vinland Saga, where the main character's father confronts him when he finds his sword. The father is about to go off to war, and somberly asks his son who he wants to kill with his father's sword. This culminates with the father, who again, is about to go off to war, emphatically declaring to his son that he has no enemies, that there is no such thing as enemies.

The other is this scene from Star Wars Andor, in which a high level spy of a burgeoning Rebellion is asked by a compatriot (who wishes to quit fighting the Empire due to possibly being found out), asks what he sacrifices for the fight against the Empire. The monologue he delivers is chilling, acknowledging he sacrifices all things that make him human, he becomes like his enemy in order to defeat them. When he reflects on the question, and asks, "So what do I sacrifice? Everything!"

That...is what I believe I will have to give up in order for there to be a sunrise for the people I love tomorrow. I'll have to give up my humanity, everything. And I am afraid. I am selfish. I don't want to. But I don't know any other way.

The feelings that scene stir up in me resonate because that is how I feel when I think on the fascist cancer that has once again metastasized in America. Having no enemies... if only. Truly. Having enemies robs me of my humanity, because in fighting them I must bury my humanity. And I know that once I do that, there's no going back. There will be no redemption.

The thing I am struggling with is... am I the one who makes them my enemies? Or are they? And if the only thing we can agree on is that we are enemies...then what choice do we have when they come for me and those I claim as my kin?

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[–] JustZ@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Every molecule that makes up our entire existence came from the fusion of a hot star, and no matter what it looks like right now, it will once again be both the precursor and the product of many more stars.

In that regard we are all identical and inconsequential.

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

To paraphrase an old saw, there is nobody as mean as all of us

[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago

Yup we're all idiots

[–] ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Actually, I'm special. The right told me my parents told me so.

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm more special. I look down on you derisively.

[–] ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Exactly what someone who's just like everyone else would say tbh

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm so much more like everybody else than you.

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Bro is an amalgamation of people LMAO 🤣

[–] babybus@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago

Yeah, but also people have very different ideas of what good life is, and what stops them from having it.

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 5 points 4 days ago

Some are fascists. Some are not. That's a pretty big distinction.

[–] Zacpod@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I'm not sure that's true. One side has empathy. The other does not. I don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't have empathy.

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

The world is not binary like that. Your side is not all good and the other side is not all bad.

[–] Zacpod@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago (6 children)

I didn't say they were "all bad." I said they lacked empathy and I wasn't interested in being friends with them.

Conservative and progressive brains are different.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/conservative-and-liberal-brains-might-have-some-real-differences/

And one of those differences is empathy. https://academic.oup.com/scan/article/18/1/nsad029/7175525

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[–] WeUnite@lemm.ee 8 points 4 days ago

I kind of see your point there. My hope though is that maybe people could gain more empathy for each other by understanding that we are all human and I hope that one day people can understand each other's struggles.

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