this post was submitted on 19 Dec 2023
1 points (100.0% liked)

196

16441 readers
1818 users here now

Be sure to follow the rule before you head out.

Rule: You must post before you leave.

^other^ ^rules^

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
1
just one more rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 
top 3 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I love sex,but my gods is it highly overrated by society

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

That's how I learned I was ace. After my first time I thought "what's the big deal about it?" Thought about it for a few months, and realized that not all ace people are sex adverse or even try to avoid it.

I'm literally married, but I sometimes feel like my husband and I may both be on the ACE spectrum. He's the only person I seriously dated in my life, and we've been together more than a decade. I never felt strongly attracted to anyone in that way until I got to know him.

Sex is great, but I'd say there are other facets of our relationship that we value even more.