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I remember a big commotion when I was a kid about Snoop Dogg and being accused of sexual assault. Did that go anywhere?
Nope. I tend to believe them though. His generation of rappers isn't exactly known for respecting women.
That's a pretty narrow-minded view but okay.
It's hard to judge on a case-by-case basis when women are dissuaded from pursuing abusers in court. We simply don't know, because we live in a rape culture, and it is a struggle to convict rapists.
We live in a rape culture?
Would you please expand?
Rape culture refers to the tendency of a society to downplay or dismiss rape, its seriousness, or accusations thereof. Think of the vile "boys being boys" or "he has such a bright future ahead of him, he just made one little mistake!" kind of justifications that still pop up from time to time in high-profile rape cases.
That is just fucked up and I can’t say I recognize it at all from my isolated little Nordic corner. Nobody defends rape.
Is it a US thing?
No, unfortunately, it's still widespread across the world.
It's definitely stronger in older generations, though. Pushback in the 60s, 70s, 90s, and 2010s have weakened it, though most places it still rears its ugly head far too often for comfort. I can attest that it remains prominent in, at the very least, the US, the UK, and France.
https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/press-release/2019/04/rape-and-sexual-violence-in-nordic-countries-consent-laws/
Don’t see anything here making it a rape culture?
All quotes from https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/press-release/2019/04/rape-and-sexual-violence-in-nordic-countries-consent-laws/
That's rape culture.
I'm a child of rape. Please don't talk to me about it if you wish to belittle the problem. Please don't talk to any women about it, it's far too possible they're a rape survivor and haven't told you, and they do not want to hear about your ignorance.
Just shut up in general about this issue if you do not understand. We don't need your lack of belief that this is an issue.
As a rape survivor, for my mental health, I will block you if you engage with me on this. Just shut up: my mental health is more important than your questions. Do not even post a "you must be brave" or "I'm sorry to hear it" or "I didn't mean it". My trauma doesn't exist for you to score virtue points. My trauma does not exist for you to defend your government and legal system, which you think are very good. I don't care about that - that's your belief, and you are welcome to it. Just don't reply. Thank you.
That's rape culture.
That's rape culture.
That's rape culture.
That's rape culture.
That's rape culture.
Please do block me as I think it would be better for the both of us.
Your holier-than-thou attitude without having a single grain of my backstory is just sad. I dont want or need your bad advice. I want to learn from those open minded enough to share their knowledge and have a fruitful discussion about a topic that that is very important. You are clearly not in a good enough place yet to have that, and that is fine. Just don’t spew your righteous hatred at me and expect me to obey. It wont happen as I wish to learn. You wish to control.
For what it’s worth: I am truly sorry. And regardless of what you think; I know a bit more about the topic than you give me credit for.
Wish you well in your future.
You have the reading comprehension of a snail.
Whatever makes you feel better about your own insecurities. Feel free to throw more ad-hominem if it makes you feel better.
Take care now.
Even some of the allegedly "more enlightened" ones, I remember in 1992 or '93 Speech from Arrested Development rapping about women needing to make more babies for the revolution. Remaining pregnant and nurturing is the happy, dutiful way to be, if you're a woman. That's an archaic stance, to say the least.