paultimate14

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[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 1 points 1 minute ago

As a guy with long hair I did this once.

First breakup. We were both young and toxic to each other, and let the other be toxic.

After some reflection I cut my hair for a variety of reasons.

I've seen the studies and speculation that it's a control thing, related to exercising bodily autonomy.

One was just that I was in college for business degrees- I always kind of knew my career would be better off with short hair anyways. Once I graduated, got a job, and got established at my company I grew my hair long again. It's still long now, probably longer than it was originally.

Another was that I wanted to be a different person. I looked back on who I was in that relationship and thought hard about who I wanted to become. While on a vacuum I preferred the long hair, and I objectively knew my hair could stay the same while my personality changed, on a subjective level I think yhe change helped. It was a visual boundary in time- when I go back and look at pictures of myself it's very easy and obvious to see that change. It helped me to think about my long-haired self as the "old me"- younger, less experienced, more raw and flawed.

Another was the emotional connection between her and my hair. While I liked the long hair and grew it before we had started dating, she really liked my long hair too. It hurt to have the same hair she used to run her fingers through swinging in front of my face. So in a sense, cutting my hair felt like cutting my connection to her.

Finally, I also started growing my beard. I had always wanted facial hair, but she didn't like it so I shaved. This seemed like a good opportunity to see what I could grow, but having long hair AND a beard seemed like a lot at the time. Now I have both of course.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 2 points 49 minutes ago

The story of Mulan seems to take place during the Wei dynasty, and was probably written during it as well. So that would place it between the late 300's and early 500's CE.

I immediately thought of Samson from the old Testament. It's estimated that story takes place around 1,000 BCE. Not sure if anyone knows of anything older.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

This example is for a 640 acre property leased at $12,160, which the oil company claims was an artificially inflated price because a conservation group was bidding.

That seems like a ludicrously small dollar figure. My guess that that the state is leasing the land cheaply, then making up for that with severance taxes on the extracted fossil fuels and minerals. Conservation groups would not generate those severance taxes.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago

I played this during last Halloween. It's great for having really cool Halloween-themed art and sound.

Everything else- the level design, story, physics, abilities, combat, bosses... They're all perfectly acceptable for a 3D platformer. Nothing particularly bad, but nothing particularly great or noteworthy. Still I'd say it was worth at least $10, maybe $15.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 18 points 4 days ago (4 children)

You got a source for that $6 billion? I've tried searching around and can't find that anywhere.

Every study I've ever seen has shown that funding the IRS is a net benefit to tax revenue. So my instinct is that the $6 billion you saw included more than just this particular campaign.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

For my library of 390 games, only 2 are "Borked".

One is Magic: Duels, which was discontinued by WOTC back in 2019. It's still playable on Windows, but seeing as it was kind of a weird experiment they did that ultimately got replaced by Arena I can understand the lack of support there. Also it was free, and I got clean a few years ago, so I'm not salty.

The other of Flatout 3 (the car racing/destruction game, not to be confused with the similarly named Fallout 3). I remembered seeing ads and reviews for Flatout back in PSM when I was a kid. Never got to play it back then, but I grabbed the series bundle on sale at some point. Still haven't played any of them yet, but it appears the issue with Flatout 3 in particular is... It's a bad game. Just learned this now, but apparently it was made by a different developer than the first games and is, by review score, one of the worst games of all time. So there's probably not a whole lot of demand for it on Linux.

Fun stuff. Always neat to find a new way to look at the library.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago

For comparison, this is how Trump used to talk, back in the 2016 RNC debate.

He's always been an obnoxious and crass New Yorker, never what you'd call an intellectual or academic. But he used to stay on topic, finish sentences, make coherent points, and generally function. Now he's reduced to somehow shouting and mumbling at the same time, confusing names and years, connecting vague concepts together until he gets applause from the audience.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 26 points 5 days ago (1 children)

He's gotten worse over time. I remember during the 2020 cycle seeing video comparisons even between his 2016 and 2020 debates.

I don't exactly enjoy going back and watching him talk, but it's shocking going back and comparing seeing how drastic the change has been.

Here's a bit of the 2016 RNC debate. Trump is still rude and crass. He's not coming off as an intellectual, but he's completing his sentences and making coherent points. He wasn't getting obviously confused like he has been since- talking about airports being involved in the Revolutionary War, claiming Nikki Haley was responsible for January 6th, the famous rant about his uncle being a genius, etc.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world -1 points 5 days ago

Thecomment I replied to listed Biden's accomplishments. I agree that I wish he was even more progressive, but we aren't going to get anyone like that without either disenfranchising 40-50 million voters or convincing them to stop voting against their best interests.

Biden already beat Trump once, when Trump has the incumbent advantage. Biden now has that advantage and has a much, much stronger resume of accomplishments than Trump did.

Who is the anti-genocide candidate who has a chance of beating Trump? Biden's stance on Israel is my biggest criticism of him, but I have yet to see a better option. There's hundreds of issues to consider when voting, so I'm not going to let one issue(where the other candidate is even worse) dissuade me from voting for the candidate who is in my best interests.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world -5 points 5 days ago

Just dismissing my points without addressing any of them lol.

The person I replied to listed Biden's accomplishments. I was the same as you back in the 2020 election - I thought Biden would be just a regular corporate Democrat, but he proved me wrong within his first year. I can admit that. He's definitely not as progressive as I would prefer, but he's far exceeded my expectations. I look at what he's actually done, not what Fox News wants me to believe he is.

You mentioned that his climate change bill was a fossil-fuel industry handout... I'm searching the Internet and can't find any publication with that take. I can see plenty of other criticisms (supporting hydrogen is controversial, Republicans have plenty of complaints as expected, we probably need to do more, it doesn't solve international issues, etc), but I can't find any indication from anywhere that it was too kind of fossil fuel corporations. Do you have any more information on that?

No successfully elected US president in history has ever started a campaign so late. If there was some front runner, a really strong candidate who had a legitimate shot, perhaps I'd entertain the idea. But that is simply not the case. Biden dropping out now is exactly what the GOP wants.

This isn't just a matter of younger candidates volunteering.The primary already happened. There was a time and a place to have this conversation and Biden won. You and I don't have to like it.

Comparing Biden to Hillary is laughable. Incumbents generally win the presidency, and Biden was popular enough to unseat Trump in 2020. Now he has a pretty good record of accomplishments to run on. He was never as hated as Hillary. That could be personal charisma, misogyny, the scandals the Clinton's had as a couple, her own racist comments resurfacing, the supercuts of her taking both sides on literally every issue, or other things. Biden isn't perfect, but as far as presidential candidates go the best the GOP has been able to do is Hunter's laptop.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world -4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Supporting the incumbent president and primary winner, who has the perhaps the most progressive accomplishments since FDR, who already beat Trump in the last election... Is supporting Trump?

That's some gold medals mental gymnastics.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 18 points 6 days ago

Even that is a perversion- Victor Gruen is largely cited as one of the pioneers of the shopping mall. He was an Austrian immigrant to the US. He wanted to create a modern, climate-controlled version of the public spaces Europe had for centuries. They were designed to be public parks, housing, schools, etc, with shopping being just a portion of the space.

He famously denounced what the shopping mall became.

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