bmpvy

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[–] bmpvy 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

ya, I know as a standalone nail polish it's nothing like in the bottle (same with the other shiny essie ones)🥲 I kinda like this freedom now because I get to create my own colour-shine-mixtures. Oh and I recently added the new gel-like top coat from essie on top of these and it looked supercool. I always go with base coat, colour, shiny and top coat - sometimes two shiny layers if I wanna sparkle extraordinary 😄

[–] bmpvy 1 points 1 week ago

auf welche, du gemeine Paywall 😭

[–] bmpvy 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

you'll need a darker colour under the shiny top coat to get that look. I got the same (and some other shiny colours) and I use grey, darker red or blue under the shiny coat - it creates beautiful shiny colours. I mostly go for grey nowadays because I love the sparkling - but for u blue seems to be the correct colour to get close to the look from the bottle

[–] bmpvy 14 points 1 week ago

einfach zum kotzen, wie sehr die Transfeindlichkeit sich global ausbreitet

[–] bmpvy 2 points 1 week ago

Sehr gute Wahl! Musste meinen grad an die nächste Generation weitergeben, vielleicht kauf ich mir demnächst tatsächlich den gleichen wie du 😊 (Hatte vorher ein größeres Model, welches jetzt mit dem Nachwuchs zur Schule fährt)

[–] bmpvy 3 points 1 week ago

Hacken oder Haken 🫠

[–] bmpvy 3 points 1 week ago

Kenne genau diesen Struggle: Medikamente nehmen für Erfolg in der Schule, weil Schule ohne Medikamente nicht aushaltbar ist. (Für mich selbst war der Wechsel zur Ausbildung dann befreiend: keine Probleme, keine Medikamente, super Noten.)

Das alternative Denkmodell ist logisch und auch erhellend, es gibt mehr Lösungswege als 'einfach Ritalin nehmen' - gleichzeitig ist Ritalin hilfreich in eben diesen Momenten, die notwendig sind um in der Leistungsdruckgesellschaft zu bestehen. Wäre noch wünschenswert, man käme an einen begleitenden Verhaltenstherapeut.

[–] bmpvy 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Vaude! Supergut verarbeitet, nachhaltig und robust. Für mich nichts anderes mehr. Wenn ich mich richtig erinnere, auch vegan, auf jeden Fall nachhaltige Produktion

[–] bmpvy 4 points 2 weeks ago

Femizid 💔

[–] bmpvy 3 points 3 weeks ago

warum hab ich laut gelacht 💀

[–] bmpvy 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Heute grad festgestellt, dass es spezielle KI-Programme gibt, die man mit zb. Lehrbriefen aus dem Studium (pdfs) füttern kann und die dann alle Inhalte in einen Lernplan strukturieren oder sogar gezielt Karteikarten zu den Inhalten und Fremdwörtern etc pp erstellt. Das war definitiv ein "holy shit" moment, weil es mein Fernstudium jetzt sehr erleichtern wird (mein Abi war 2005, da gabs das nicht ansatzweise)

[–] bmpvy 3 points 1 month ago

funktioniert, danke!

 

I need to get some sort of gift for a friends birthday (who lives nearby) and for a kid of my extended family (lives further away).

Do you have any recommendations for gifts that go along with sorta frugal lifestyle? I can't think of anything right now (pressure is on, birthday 1 is tomorrow)

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by bmpvy to c/frugal@lemmy.world
 

about adapting to frugal lifestyle after an incomebreakdown 🫠

my adhd is giving me a hard time not spending for any impulsive ideas but I am left with only round about a quarter of my former income and I can't adapt well. I had enough before and since half a year I don't, but my brain wants to spent money like before.

we don't eat expensive, but we snack expensive. i usually don't buy a lot of clothes but I lost a lot of weight and most doesn't fit anymore (and I'm going to look for a new job soon, so I need at least one proper outfit).

we got a cat and a dog, which had super heavy health scares last year. so I pay for the insurances instead of waiting for the worst. the dog is allergic af and I have to buy expensive special food. i am a single parent and have to take care of the teenagers needs as well.

I'm going to sell my car soon, because I just have to to get by. social aid doesn't pay anything at this point because I was couple of bucks over the limit so far. But they don't consider the high debt I got. So I'm actually pretty concerned right now. i used to be poor before, so I kinda know I will get over this episode, but it terrifies me at this point.

long story short: i need a network of no-buy-buddies that helps keep me from spending too much. anyone out there?

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