Bryllyg

joined 1 month ago
[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 22 hours ago

Good for you! It takes a lot of courage to do what you did and I'm very proud of you for asserting yourself and moving one step forward with living your authentic self. Keep up the good work!!

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just finished Twilight last week and now nearly half way through New Moon. I'm pleasantly surprised at how good they are so far. Not great, but good enough to pass the time. I might skip book 3 though as I heard there's some harsh stuff in it...

I'm hoping this gets me back into reading again.

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I feel the need to offer a correction. Dysphoria is a diagnosis, and is not considered to be a mental illness.

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 week ago

That really is terrible and I'm so sorry that happened but try and stay strong! You made it this far and you are worth it! Try and talk to a sponsor or call a help line first because I know it's hard but you can make it one more day at a time. We are here for you.

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

Great segment, thank you for sharing it! I am so glad that people like that judge and pastor are standing up. We need more of this.

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

I was expecting it to be King for a Day by XTC... A bit more whimsical than our current situation though.

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 3 weeks ago

Redundant socks is essential for this setup.

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 month ago

Sadly they've already deleted that page because the URL has "trans" in it. >.>

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sounds like you're at least in a somewhat good place and working towards progress which is awesome!

I've been tremendously happy with the area I live in so far. If I wear a mask, a cute hat, painted nails or not, wearing a purse, and practice my voice, I've been able to pass and get gendered correctly. It's still daunting but my courage is building.

Do everything you can that makes you feel safe and euphoric and keep building yourself up!

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Ya stuff really sucks now. States are starting to try and push through even worse laws, and it's getting pretty discouraging. But keep your chin up and keep reaching out. Start with small changes that might be less perceived. Underclothing is a great start. Painting nails should be ok too in most places I hope.

Now that I'm finally ready to change my name there's no point because they are holding up all the passport changes. The ACLU filed a lawsuit in February but I haven't found any updates about that yet. Assuming they even follow a court order to continue processing them...

Just gotta keep on practicing as much self care as possible. Form as many good affirming and positive habits you can. And hopefully things will get better!

[–] Bryllyg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't have any go to brands yet but I wanted to thank you for linking these places as I can use them for inspiration. I really appreciate this space and thank you all so much! <3

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