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[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 hours ago

:o we are so proud of u

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago

nahhh... who needs clippers. nails are so stimmy to munch on

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 day ago

headpat replacement therapy

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 day ago

this is so real waow >~<

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

you can't really "overdose" on Estrogen (you can overdose on AA's tho!!), there is technically a limit of "too high" E but its so incredibly high you'll never get anywhere close on normal dosing. anyway DIY is awesome! fuck the system. we don't understand why creatures are so adamant on having cishet doctors control their lives... especially when they have proven time and time again they are transphobic bigots who have absolutely no idea what they are doing. you don't need a doctor to tell you what dosage you need to take.. especially since they'll probably tell you the wrong dosage.

anyway, rant aside. DIY is great, it saves the lives of soooo many trans creatures (including us) and supporting the creatures who make it possible is also great!

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago

because transphobia... pretty much

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago

this is beautiful, and very very relatable in sooo many ways. woaw

we have so much more that we could say, but we don't have the mental energy to express it.

good luck on your journey, Amber.

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago

congratulations!!!

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

we recommend taking weekly pictures to compare to later! it's hard but it can be really helpful for seeing how far you've come during those dark moments. congratsssss!!

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

recovering from surgery (not trans related sadly) which sucks, but at least get to stay home from school. got to spend a week in the hospital which sucked much worse. turns out bed actually sucks when you have to stay in it for 5 days straight.

in other news, 2 months hrt anniversary was 3 days ago. might start seeing some realllll changes soonish (other than the ones we've already experienced) so pretty happy about that :D things might actually start getting better hehe

edit: oh and we rewatched the entirety of she-ra and the princesses of power, it was as good as we remember it being (very) :3

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

congratulations!!!! :o

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

I appreciate this greatly. Thank you for moderating the community this way.

 

Bunch of random resources people may find useful, will update this post as new resources come along. Mostly from Reddit, any posts have been uploaded as PDFs to read.

[ A Mixture of Different Resources ]

[ Some useful Videos from Trans Voice Lessons ]

https://www.youtube.com/@TransVoiceLessons/videos Channel link.

https://youtu.be/oWmj73Ttp4E Learn to hear size/resonance better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fylIX28mlyY Practice advice

https://youtu.be/rvet1PwCoGY An ear training live stream

https://youtu.be/imdM3Cea4NA Voice surgery live stream

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHyVNIcw_XI some common myths

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans_voice_help@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

A 261 page book going over voice training. May be helpful to some. Link if you can't access it from the post.

 
 

After much consideration and fighting with my brain, I've decided that it's okay to ask for help in hard situations. So, I'm making this in hope that I receive at least a little bit of help. I'm asking for money, friends, and any advice you can give me. Everything counts and will help me during this rather terrible time. I'm Uni (name TBD) and I'm a 16 y/o transgirl unfortunately situated in the USA. You may know me as a regular on the Blahaj Matrix chats going by "Miss Universe".

So a little bit (a lot?) of backstory to sort of explain my current situation. My egg cracked October last year and it was both the best and worst thing that has happened in my life so far. Being a minor means that I can't really do anything about the fact that my egg cracked, I'm fully relying on the people around me to help me (which has failed). Put simply, as a minor I have absolutely no control over my body or my life, I have no money, no experience, and nowhere to go.

I came out to my mother and step-father (my parents are divorced) February this year, and while they seemed to be supportive at first they semi-recently turned on me and have been mostly unsupportive since then.

As for my father and step-mother, they are both actively transphobic republicans. I have no plans on coming out to them until after I turn 18, and it would be unsafe to do so before then.

Basically, as of now I have basically no support from anybody in my life and I'm completely trapped as my dysphoria gets worse with each passing day.

With my situation sort of explained(?), why am I actually here? Pretty much I'm here because I need money. Money for clothes, makeup, just stuff that can hopefully help me alleviate some of my dysphoria until I'm able to afford to do so myself (which as a minor is difficult). And also I suppose gas, in case it comes to it and I need to run away, even for a short period. I'm also looking for advice, I don't really know what to do and it would be really nice to have at least some semblance of what I could be doing right now.

I don't really know if any of that made sense, I'm bad at organizing my thoughts and even worse at asking for help. If you have any questions post them in the comments and I can probably answer them.

You can support me here on Buy Me a Coffee if you so wish, and/or with advice in the comments. Every donation counts.

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