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Why did you transition? Wrong answers only (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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Some choice quotes from the last time I saw a thread like this:

  • When I was 8 someone told me that girls go to college to get more knowledge, and boys go to jupiter to get more stupider. And obviously I took that personally ReverendPancakes
  • I grew bewbs from the COVID vaccine and decided it was easier to just run with it. DepressivesBrot
  • Smaller hitboxes Fantasygoria
  • I drank tap water and soy milk.
  • life was too easy, so i increased the difficulty setting and this is what happened hdj103
  • Clearly because women have such an easier time in life DrHob0
  • According to my Mormon ultra right wing father: I have an infatuation with the female body and was bitten by the social contagion bug and there is no cure. The reasoning for this belief is I once told him I don't think that people who watch porn are bad/going to hell, and I didn't see it as a problem for someone to watch it. So to recap. I watched porn. Saw naked woman. Went wow v pretty I wanna look like that. Then took hormonesπŸ‘ mist_wraith_
  • I personally felt that my safe access to public bathrooms was too damn high froglipsmulligan
  • I couldn't get a goth gf so I became the goth gf A_Sneaky_Dickens
  • Better bouyancy when swimming Blah-Blah-Blah-2023
  • To bring down western civilization. MyynMyyn
  • Because I was a hitman for organized crime but I got caught. Transitioning was my only option when I went into witness protection when I ratted out my employers. Dakotaisapotato
  • So I can balance my phone on my boobs instead of having to hold it when I’m relaxing and watching YouTube Somethingintheway245
  • I wanted to study tiddy jiggle physics for animation purposes DaAwesomeNeko
  • Um, girls rule, boys drool, duh. MyconautAlien
  • I signed up for a trial gender & forgot to cancel. Better_Image_5859
  • There were too many dudes in my field (engineering) so I got auto-balanced. Cassie_Darkborn
  • So I'd be less embarrassed when choosing a female character in games. throwaway_eclipse1
  • A drag queen started reading a book out loud while I was in the same room. ATransFemalePerson
  • My eyelashes were too long to not corncrakey
  • To get cheaper auto insurance rates πŸ‘ Various_Ad_4533
  • Because that shark plushie was just too damn cute not to buy πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ¦ˆ KingOfRedLlamas
  • I started programming and just accidentally became a girl. swiftsorceress
  • I used a bunch of drugs and wanted to move on to something harder. So I started taking estrogen. Kept chasing the high. Oops, now I have tits and an ass. FecalAlgebra
  • I wanted conservatives to have strong opinions on what I do with my body. ususetq
  • Because I sarcastically said "well I have the legs for it" every time the prospect of me wearing women's clothing came up in conversation in high school. I had to continue the bit. MC_White_Thunder
  • No one ever talked to me at the bar and I got tired of buying my own drinks.
  • Because I got infected with β€œThe Gay(tm)” as I have no agency of my own SpicyNovaMaria
  • I accidentally checked the wrong box on the presurgical paperwork and woke up with boobs Wzd_JA
  • In case I have to kill the Witch-king of Angmar SmoothSoup
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[–] ElectroLisa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 46 points 2 months ago

I installed Arch

[–] florencia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 46 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I saw an unfiltered dark web internet comic and it turned me gay.

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[–] Limonene@lemmy.world 41 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I took one look at a trans woman, and I was immediately infected by the woke mind virus.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 31 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If the woke mind virus creates more cute girls in the world, we need to start a pandemic.

[–] 0liviuhhhhh@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That was the plan in 2020. Unfortunately, the vaccine didn't work properly and instead of turning people trans it just turned them into magnets.

Oopsies

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[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 38 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Its one of the most effective ways to prevent male pattern baldness.

[–] SecondaryAnnetagonist@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago

Finnestride is a gateway drug, it was almost inevitable that I had to move on to something harder.

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 32 points 2 months ago

Always heard it "crazy cat lady". By the time I heard "crazy cat gentleman", I was in too deep.

[–] 0liviuhhhhh@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 2 months ago

It was too hard to get ahead as a straight white dude and I wanted some of that woke privilege

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 2 months ago

I found the cutest dog at the shelter, but the sign said "will bite men".

[–] VivianRixia@piefed.social 24 points 2 months ago

A game asked me if I was a boy or girl, I chose girl and have since committed to the bit.

[–] OldEggNewTricks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)
  • I was bitten by a radioactive lesbian.
  • I kept fighting with my wife over the air conditioning.
  • To get better at karaoke.
[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 2 months ago

I work in a supermarket and the clothing department barely has any options for men, so I decided to transition to more effectively use my staff discount

[–] Sombyr@lemmy.zip 22 points 2 months ago

Like a true gamer, I only play on hard mode.

[–] Neps@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 2 months ago

Cause I love being hated by everyone around me 😍

[–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 months ago

Lost a bet.

[–] zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Conservatives talking about trans people so much infected me with the trans

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This but unironically. Conservatives going insane over trans people is what made me decide to learn about trans people, and I learned a thing or two about myself in the process.

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[–] squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 months ago

I never had a choice, I was forcefully transed by my leftist parents who made me wear my older sister's clothes when I was a child.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 months ago

As one of us is a poet we saw our lives as not tragic enough to write about anymore. So we transitioned.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well I'm already disabled and vegan so I figured this was the next logical stpe in making life complicated.

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[–] phr@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 2 months ago

i missclicked when sims 4 asked for the pronouns of my self insert. so i had to go with it.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I had to see If my highschool bullies were right. They were.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 months ago

gender affirming bullies πŸ’–

[–] Kitathalla@lemy.lol 16 points 2 months ago

I was told it was a quick weight-loss solution.

[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 months ago

I got a girlfriend but she became gay so Iswitched gender so we don't break up.

[–] SecondaryAnnetagonist@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 months ago

The lengths I go to avoid swimming in public pools are unprecedented.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

To spread the trans catgirl agenda of turning eveyone into cute catgirls who like being headpatted and given girlcuddles, thats why I put estrogen in the water supply >:3

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 9 points 2 months ago

Can you put oestrogen in my water supply please it would save me money if I have girl juice in the taps

[–] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Ha, joke's on you! It made me a puppygirl, so take that! (I'd still like some headpats and girlcuddles plz)

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[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 15 points 2 months ago

I wanted to make minecraft mods

I would have stood out if i was cis

[–] silver_tribble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm really a beta male that wants to be railed by a true alpha male, but the only way I can get that to happen is to have boobs and a vagina installed.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

have you tried apt install boobs vagina?

[–] silver_tribble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I did. I got some message about unsupported architecture.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 2 months ago

uuh have you tried qemu --arch female --os transfem --shell='apt install boobs vagina' --keepalive?

[–] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

I just wasn't anxious enough already

[–] phr@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 2 months ago

wanted my parents to stop calling me and ask when i would visit them next time. but was too autistic to know how to tell them, that planning travels is hard work for my autistic ass.

[–] catonwheels@ttrpg.network 15 points 2 months ago

I got tired of my paranoia was about non existent threats, so I stepped it up to real threats.

[–] 2d4_bears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 months ago

I’m no causal, so I decided to play life on hard mode.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

~~Wanted to finally feel what it feels like to be desired.~~

~~oops, sorry, wrong answers only. Um, i meant, wanted to know what it feels like to get fetishized and railed.~~

ups, sorry, accidentally true again. Um, i meant, um, i like the pretty hair or sth.

[–] Cybrpwca@beehaw.org 12 points 2 months ago

The DEX boost from skirts was just too good to pass up.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 12 points 2 months ago

Accidentally played Celeste

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

Difficulty wasn’t set high enough.

[–] TheGingerNut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 months ago

Builtin airbags for my not infrequent traffic accidents

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 10 points 2 months ago

I had a Tab energy drink back in 2006 and I've been trapped ever since.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

~~Joked about how if i ever get married, wedding attire would be mandatory drag, wanted to work on filling out a dress in advance.~~

Needed to grow breasts to fill out my dress for an office party

I wanted to learn Linux.

[–] genevieve@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 months ago

Lost a bet.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 9 points 2 months ago

The benefits it affords me in society

[–] cows_are_underrated 8 points 2 months ago

That list is god damn funny. Peak comedy.

[–] HeckGazer@programming.dev 8 points 2 months ago

I take my RP in games very seriously and was doing Recruitment Drive in OSRS

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