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[–] EmperorHenry@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Kaspersky safe kids...Good to know to never use that.

Kaspersky premium is still pretty good, not perfect, but good.

[–] Johanno@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

Also confirmed Russian company that sells data to their government.

And since Windows 10 windows defender is (by Design) better.

Because Windows integrated it into the Systems. Other Software needs to hack their way into those and often open more security holes than they protect

[–] gon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A classic. So many questions arise from this simple text+image post:

  1. Is this person's child named really "Strairdrac The Netherwatcher"?
  2. Is Strairdrac even human?
  3. Why does Strairdrac want to teach crabs how to read?
  4. Why is it considered forbidden knowledge?
  5. What other knowledge is forbidden?

We will never have all the answers. Still, the questions are themselves a sort of answer.

[–] goddard_guryon@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)
  1. Strairdrac is three crabs in a trenchcoat, now teaching others of his kind how to blend in with humans
[–] gon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[–] EvilEyedPanda@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Crab people

Crab people

Taste like Crab, walk like people

[–] esadatari@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

to know all the answers is… forbidden knowledge

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get the "haha" of this particular search getting reported on...but I think that this sort of surveillance is definitely stepping into creepy territory that will end up doing more harm than good.

There were definitely web searches I performed about topics back when I was younger that I would never want my parents to know. When you live in an oppressive household where you are taught never to think outside of the box or be anything your parents don't want you to be, having the internet available is supposed to be a path to liberation.

If they want to set up filters that block certain results, fine. But tattling is just unethical, especially if the child does not know their search history is being monitored by their parents.

[–] kameecoding@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

if only there was a Black mirror episode about the dangers of being an overbearing parent.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The thing is, parents get incredibly conflicted messages about this. When a child DOES end up looking at something bad parents get all the blame for not supervising and controlling their child and get called abusive. If they supervise and control their child they get called helicopter parents or abusive as well.

And it's not only regarding the internet. When parents let their children roam, for example, the neighborhood and something bad happens, the parents get the blame and called abusive for letting their child roam the neighborhood. If they control outdoors time for they child, they are abusive again.

It literally doesn't matter what you do as a parent, a lot of people will call you a bad parent or an abuser for it. I believe it is one reason why some people don't want to have children at all. It's basically an impossible task.

[–] Pantherina@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

Dudes remove that spyware from your Networks omg

[–] Rac3r4Life@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I was a kid (way too many years ago) my parents gave up trying to restrict my Internet usage because no matter what they did I could easily get around it. I knew more about networking than they did. Then I grew up to become an IT administrator.

[–] SHITPOSTING_ACCOUNT@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

And this is why kids should grow up with increasingly restrictive parental control software. It's educational.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Stop spying on your kid... Jesus.

[–] Guy_Fieris_Hair@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Kids need access to the internet at a super young age these days for school. If you don't have some sort of filter in place when they are in single digits or tweens you are just negligent. The internet has some dark corners.

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And the proper way is to teach your kids about it and stop treating kids like super fragile glass beings.

Your city probably has some dark corners too, but you don't set up geofenced tracking beacons to be alarmed if they stumble slightly off the path you intended them to go.

Children should feel comfortable enough to talk to you about bad stuff they encounter, not feel frightened, that they broke a rule.

[–] Rukmer@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you use these trackers and barge in "hey I saw what you did on the internet, you're in trouble." then you're doing it wrong. Kids need guidance. If you were negligent enough to let your kid roam the city without supervision, you SHOULD have a tracker on them. We're talking about little kids not 16+. Many young kids get themselves killed or groomed or into some kind of cult online. When that happens to young kids, parents are negligent. When 12 year olds get addicted to porn, negligence. You can guide your children without being an asshole. I know a lot of us grew up either completely neglected or completely terrified to make a mistake, but there is an in-between.

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

When I look outside, there are 5 year olds playing without supervision. They get along just fine.

Not every country is a paranoid dystopia.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 0 points 1 year ago

The thing is, parents can get sued for not restricting access of their children to inappropriate media. When you think just talking to your children "the right way" and they will suddenly act wise and smart and good all the time you are incredibly naive.