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One of the comments reads : Actually, we will probably never figure out, was it man or woman. but I thought this comment of the professor was an interesting eye opener. https://mastodonapp.uk/@MarkHoltom/112070436760917344

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[–] Z3k3@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I always read this type of statement as man = species.

I know this particular thinking is falling out of fashion but it's not totally dead yet

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Thing is, statements like the one in the post are just as ignorant as the claimed "enemy".

You know what else takes 28 days? A moon cycle. We have absolutely no context, what this means. A period tracker bone is a perfectly valid hypothesis, but without any proof or context nothing more than this. It could have been used for moon phases, sheep counting, trade, or simply for testing stone knives.

[–] bouh@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Seeing the reactions in this thread, it does seem that a lot of men are indeed enemies of women. Why would it be so hot otherwise to discuss this?

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

And this reaction of yours is a prime example of jumping to conclusions based on political views.

You can argue, that this bone was used for 400 different things. Without context, arguing that it's definitely something about menstruation is just pseudo-feminist circle jerking. They just choose this interpretation because it fits their views and goals. That's unscientific.

What you're doing here is also not much better. Instead of actually engaging with the argument I brought, you just assume, that everyone who disagrees with a pseudo-feminist interpretation of a bone, must be the enemy. That is not exactly scientific.

[–] bouh@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

you talked about enemity first, remember? you have this view of a fight, and that anyone who dare say that a woman did something and not a man, is fighting men.

You have a very defensive position. Which means you feal attacked. You say it directly when you talk about "enemy".

You are the problem my friend. Your first comment is aa problem. And the support it receives is concerning and scary.

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago

Nope, I just pointed out, that an absolute statement like the one above is not valid. And the "enemy" I brought up, was used as a description of the position shown by the proponents of the menstruation bone absolutism.

And labeling me as a "problem", without even an attempt at telling me where I might be wrong is pretty, well, bold?

Think about it, I write, that absolutism is not good, and your first response is "you are evil because you dare question whatever I happen to believe in".

You don't help feminism like that. And that's pretty sad.

[–] Aqarius@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

IIRC "Calendar" was one of the proposed solutions, but the bone actually had a lot more than 28 holes. It's one of the reasons it's purpose is considered unknown.

I always find this particular strain of antiintellectualism deeply ironic, because it claims to oppose women being forgotten, but the premise assumes the "scientists" are all male.

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I don’t see it assuming scientists are all men. Women are just as capable of internalized misogyny and just as capable of being dense as men.

With the willendorf Venus, it wasn’t until a woman who had already had children worked with it, that they suspected it might be a pregnancy self portrait. There had been women already there, but none who knew what a pregnant person looks like from that perspective.

[–] Aqarius@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Ok, now that example I like very much!

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I’ve never been 7+ months pregnant (not a sad thing in my case, no worries), but I can 100% imagine that it feels like being the willendorf Venus. I love the idea of some woman however long ago half annoyed and half teasing making it and giving it to the father, saying “this is what I am now,” though.

[–] bane_killgrind@lemmy.ml 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

"never more than 2 weeks pregnant" would be much less alarming, but it does have the implication of yeeting blastocysts at the grim reaper, however many or few...

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago

I just meant showing, I’ve never been past seven weeks, thankfully.

[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I really like that idea, in principle, of a sculptor with no reflection to work from doing a self-portrait. But seriously, even somebody having triplets doesn't look like that unless they're like... super morbidly obese already. Even accounting for foreshortening, I mean damn. That kind of figure is a strictly modern invention. But maybe, it's still an interesting idea. But seriously.

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago

I’ve got a bmi of 19 and it doesn’t look so significantly different looking down when I’m not pregnant, lol. I even asked my husband to confirm it wasn’t hella body dysmorphia. I, uh, am not going to post a picture, but you can plug various values into this visualizer and change the angle of view. It has always been pretty accurate for me.

[–] demonen@lemmy.ml 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It occurs to me that the solution might be to start referring to men as "wermen" again, and revert "men" to it's gender neutral roots. That also means we can have a bunch of other prefixes for other genders.

Languages are fun.

[–] Ultraviolet@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

That's also where the "were" prefix in werewolf comes from.

[–] bob_lemon@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago

Does that mean female werewolves should be called wowolves? (Or even better, woowolves)

[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I mean the lunar cycle is roughly 29 days with the argument that it’s 28 if you don’t count the new moon.

I realize this is a neat thought idea but it I think best demonstrates how easy it is to jump to conclusions.

[–] Mr_Blott@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I conclude the moon has a vaj

[–] pdnq@feddit.de 0 points 7 months ago

Derek, halt! Unga unga, no cave cuddles now. Me check bone-calendar, unga bunga, big chance for baby bump. We wait, sky spirits nod-nod. Timing everything, unga!

Sure, that was the way for woman to use a calender…