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[–] BakedCatboy@lemmy.ml 52 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Idk about that, but I have trained my cat to shake, high five, nose kiss, sit, stand on hind legs, and scratch her post on command. I'm currently working on roll over and spin.

[–] Infynis@midwest.social 21 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I trained my kitten to play fetch, but now that she's a cat, she won't do it lol

[–] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My cat used to love fetch as a kitten!

Then he grew up and started lazily staring at me instead of returning the toy.

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 day ago

They grow up so fast. 😢

[–] Greg@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

100% we have a smart food-motivated cat and she's lots of fun to train

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 17 points 3 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Most cats are easy to bribe. They like (some) food, hunt, and scritches.

They are not pack animals and have zero pack animal behaviours. That makes them offensive for a particular mindset of people who want control. Beware of people who "don't like cats".

[–] Chee_Koala@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

I grew up around dogs and when trying out the stuff I learned on cats, it worked about as well as we now might expect 😅. My theory was that I just didn't get them, so I would pass up on interactions because nails.

Now I live with 2 cats of my own, and it's super cozy. But there was quite the learning curve! It was fun to learn it all, though.

Anyway, wanting control is not just some weird kink/personality mishap when talking about it in context of dog ownership. Most of the time, either you are in control, or the dog is. Dogs in control are unsafe to be around, so you don't really have a choice.

[–] Sanguine@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

1000% agree on the last sentence. I've used that as a metric for years.

[–] Amanduh@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

Someone doesn't like the animal i like, must be nefarious lol

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[–] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago

My cat is dumb and good motivated and he’s fairly trainable.

He knows his name, the other cats name, our names, and responds to me when I call him over. He also recognizes “dinner” and bathroom time. He’ll do simple commands like up/down/off.

But if he’s not feeling it he will pretend he doesn’t hear while annoyedly flicking his tail.

Our other cat Is very smart but not food motivated. She does a lot of things if you tell her but only if she wants to. She doesn’t like being told what to do.

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[–] enbyecho@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Or they understand that it's the cats doing the training.

For example, my cat has me trained so that when she comes in at night I give her a treat. Sometimes she'll demand to go back out again so she can come inside and get another treat. Works perfectly every time.

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Cats can be trained! I took it serious this time around and she's learned how to stand up, shake, and high five. The trick is finding something they really, really like to eat since they won't do it just to make your happy 😅

Edit: Also weird that cats are thought to be worse because they're (sometimes) less subservient? Like, is that the only quality of a pet?

[–] shasta@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

I don't think doing tricks is what people have in mind when they say they want to train their pet

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Also weird that cats are thought to be worse because they're (sometimes) less subservient? Like, is that the only quality of a pet?

That’s an owner problem, not a cat problem. Cats are what they are. I think most people that dislike cats do so because they can’t treat them poorly and command them yet still get that subservience from them like dogs as you mentioned. They don’t want or like animals that tell them to fuck off.

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

One way I heard it said: Cats form their own opinions, cats require consent, cats come with boundaries. Beware of people who don't "get" cats.

I don't necessarily think every person who likes being in charge is automatically a bad person. Dogs are fine too. But it's generally a warning sign if someone can't cope with not being in charge.

[–] nullroot@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I love this comment - cool insight fellow human.

That’s a better way to say it. Agreed.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Meanwhile, cat owners: This is my roommate, their existence heals me

[–] vrighter@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

i taught mine to high-five without food. He just loves being pet that much

[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

I taught my cat to do it for treats. For weeks after, he would walk around the house high-fiving the furniture and look offended when a treat didn't fall from the sky.

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[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 26 points 3 days ago (2 children)

People literally train their cats to shit in the toilet.

People that argue that point need to be forced to bare witness.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago

"You can't train a cat!"

"No Chad, YOU can't train a cat. Now come watch MY cat poop."

".......we're just going to wait for your cat to need to poop in the litterbox?"

"No. I told you. I'VE trained MY cat to shit on command.....AND THEN FLUSH!"

[–] Anne@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I used to have a cat that I was able to train to use the toilet! It took less than 6 months to transition from the litterbox, and she was around 3 when we started so she was already very set in her ways.

It requires something this This Toilet Insert and a spare bathroom that doesn't need to be used by anyone but the cat for the length of the training. (Even if you remove the insert to use the toilet, the cat will likely object to any smells that aren't their own)

Yet, I am completely unable to get my dog to stop humping men... Only ever men. Suggestions welcomed.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

Cats can be trained, they just aren’t as willing to do it as dogs.

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 11 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Dogs and cats are both fine. People who want to “train” a cat are misunderstanding the nature of the relationship, though. Do you train your friends to do what you want them to?

[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 day ago

When it comes to communication, I absolutely do train them. Someone who always begs for money, doesn’t get very many responses from me, or very soon.

Someone who uses the wrong communication method, doesn’t get a response very quickly. I have a special arrangement with someone where we’ve agreed to use Slack for all sorts of random asynchronous communication and Signal for urgent stuff that requires an answer very quickly. We’ve made a verbal agreement about this, but some times they still violates the agreement by using Signal for non-urgent stuff. That’s when I ignore that message for a while. If my phone keeps on beeping, I silence Signal notifications for the rest of the day.

So far, training people has worked out pretty well.

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 18 points 3 days ago

You don’t Pavlov condition all your friends?

[–] rustydrd@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If my friend had a habit of jumping on the kitchen counter and chasing after my ankles, then yes, I would train them to stop that.

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[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago
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[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 9 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Rabbits can also be trained fyi. I think the biggest limitation on what a rabbit can do is definitely it's body, not it's brain

[–] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Can they be house trained?

The ones in my yard are fairly clever, learning quickly if people are a threat and memorizing the garden layouts.

One in my yard is really dumb and kept trying to make a den in a potted plant. I had to keep chasing him away and then put rocks over his hole. He kept coming back and digging it out again though.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yep, they can be litter trained. Not sure if coating things in an apple spray (something rabbits find gross) counts as training them not to chew stuff. Rabbits are pretty clean and are suitable as house pets.

I've seen YT videos of one playing basket ball and learning to signal for food and such. Mine used to push a ball back and fourth between me and them. Saw someone else also train a rabbit to high-five them. It's also possible to be able to call them (although you might need to use a more arbitrary sound than a name, like squeal a certain tone or a whistle.)

[–] MY_ANUS_IS_BLEEDING@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

I believe that they can be trained to use a litter tray, as for not gnawing on things I'm not so sure.

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[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

I love training animals. Dogs, cats, horses, ducks. It's so rewarding because almost all animals you bond with want to please. Ducks are kinda hit or miss in regards to pleasing, but they can all respond to the phrase "go to bed" if you teach it to them.

[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Where did you get your stats?

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[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 5 points 3 days ago

I don’t think one is better than the other, they’re just different and it depends on what you want out of an animal. I have a dog and two cats and they’re very well behaved, but I like my dog better. I like to go jogging and having her with me when I go is more fun. But dogs are also much less independent and require a lot of care, and cats in general are more into being cuddled than dogs are in my experience. Less active more introverted people seem to prefer cats, and that makes total sense to me.

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 days ago
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