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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

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[โ€“] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 70 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm into very niche fashion. I love it so much, because it's fun.

Once had a guy, a stranger, completely unpromted, scrunch his face up in disgust and ask "is that supposed to be sexy?" as I was walking past.

Sorry that my fashion choices don't sexually stimulate you, you wee little garbage pail man.

[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 57 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

What about girls? ๐Ÿฅบ

[โ€“] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 34 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I think this might be Jessica......and I don't even know who Jessica is! But this is her!

[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 44 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[โ€“] kewwwi@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago

she's totally not

[โ€“] krippix 15 points 2 weeks ago

wtf is that abomination

[โ€“] Jessica@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Exactly! I'm totally not :3

[โ€“] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 22 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You've lost your mind, it's totally not.

[โ€“] lurch@sh.itjust.works 26 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Some of them peer preasure each other into using a certain amount. It's kinda brutal to observe and leaves parents confused.

[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 35 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

So girls like girls in cute makeup more than guys do?

[โ€“] lurch@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

But not too much makeup or they call each other "slut", fight, it will come up at the parent teacher meeting, but nothing will change.

[โ€“] VerticaGG@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Het homo omni pan sapphy or poly -sexual, believe it or not, societal pressure to appeal to allocishetwhite beauty standards? Straight up patriarchy

[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

but I wanna b pwetty an cute ๐Ÿฅฐ

[โ€“] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Then do what makes you happy! There aren't any rules. WLW can be into someone who's femme, butch, or anywhere in-between (or outside) of that paradigm. If your heart tells you to dress up cute, then go for it! :)

[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Tbf, it's not like I have no interest in boys. It's just that girls as so much easier to talk to! (โ€แ—ขโ€)

Of course...There's also the fact that so many men never had a chance to be mature people. They're soooo mysterious... because so many of them hate having open conversations about themselves. So many were never given healthy emotional tools as kids. So many don't learn until later in life, instead getting groomed by reactionary social cults into being the most unattractive versions of themselves.

It's not like it doesn't happen to women, but so many more men feel unsafe to date. The brain worms is so rampant and hard to deal with. We need to treat them en masse, not through relationships

[โ€“] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You're right. It is scary, isn't it?

One of the worst parts (from my perspective, as a woman who wishes to help them) is that they've become unreachable. They've become primed to tune out the voices and opinions of anyone who isn't cis-male. The rest of us can do little more than worry as they go deeper and deeper into the rabbit hole, because anything we say or do is liable to make them burrow even deeper. To reach those guys, cis-men will have to lead the challenge.

spoilerBut to do so would require an incredible amount of emotional labor. I believe most cis-men are good people. But in my experience, most of them will shrug off emotional labor tasks at every available opportunity. I'd love for a guy who feels offended by that statement to prove me wrong. I'd love to see them spurred to take action, even if just out of spite. Sadly, the most I can expect is a downvote and/or a futile, self-defensive rant.

[โ€“] allo@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

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[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[โ€“] allo@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

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[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Do that again and I'll ~~permaban~~ remove your comment with reason

[โ€“] allo@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

haha. dont worry. you and your groups are blocked. I only interact with decent people. You just failed that test hard. take things automatically negatively more.

I didn't see what you originally posted, only that something was removed. I was only wanted you to not spam spoilers. I'm sorry you took it that way :(

[โ€“] pseudo@jlai.lu 3 points 2 weeks ago

Many mothers participate and that is weird and horrible to see.

[โ€“] metaStatic@kbin.earth 28 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The less it's for me the more I like it. Good make up is, at best, fraud, Great make up shows a creative personality which will still be attractive when it's smeared across your pillow in the morning.

[โ€“] lolola@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 weeks ago

Good make up is, at best, fraud

I'm gonna get this engraved and hang it above my mirror

[โ€“] samus12345@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm not a fan of makeup and I approve of her message.

[โ€“] exasperation@lemm.ee 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I am a fan of makeup and don't really understand why so many men try to claim they aren't. I generally like more a natural look, but I can also recognize that the natural look takes a shitload of effort and makeup applied in a skillful way. But I can recognize that "natural" makeup is a conscious choice and looks better than actually not wearing makeup.

And, to the point of this comic, it's really sexy for people to make their own choices and do things for themselves rather than to attract others.

[โ€“] samus12345@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

I claim I'm not because that's just my preference. I'm also not a fan of people doing things solely for the approval of others. If someone wants to wear a ton of makeup because they like it, more power to them. Just don't do it for anyone else.

[โ€“] LEONHART@slrpnk.net 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Speak for your fuckin' self, bro.

[โ€“] GhiLA@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 weeks ago

bimbo ain't one of the top tags on redgifs for nothing!

...or, so I've heard.

[โ€“] Sanctus@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago

Bomb makeup looks good on everyone. Guys included.

[โ€“] shalafi@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago

Went to the office as a woman one Halloween. (Won the contest!) No one knew who I was, not even old friends. Hell, one friend straight checked me out, bottom to top. That was a system shock.

I now have an appreciation for women and makeup I would never have felt. Also, I apparently touch my face, a lot. What a pain.

[โ€“] Breezy@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As a cis white male, i don't see any issue with makeup. Ive thickened my eye brows with what i think was eye liner for a job. Idk honestly, i was told by an ex to do so to look more mature for my interview. I got the job.

[โ€“] Shou@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

My friend and I were running an experiment with c. elegans. A wannabe worm that reaches a whopping 2mm in length.

And we needed a poking stick.

An eyebrow hair glued to a toothpick would be perfect. I have very fine hair, and my eyebrows are sparse too. So Iook at my friend, and his densely forested bushy brows. He point blank told me he had done his eyebrows and was wearing makeup. Just my luck. So I plucked out a few hairs. I had a visible bald patch on my eyebrow for a few months. Like a shitty attempt at shaving a small streak of eyebrow.

It was also in a GMO lab where students sometimes worked with antibiotic bacteria. That means the place is a contaminated mess with mystery superbacteria. I got a minor infection on my eyebrow. I was fine, but learned my lessen to never touch my skin again in a lab.

I used to be supportive of men wearing make up. Little less so after that. xD

[โ€“] SlimeKnight@lemm.ee 10 points 2 weeks ago

Make up for women is like the gym for guys

Sure, you may start to impress your preferred gender.

But after a while, you stop caring about impressing your preferred gender, and more about showing off to those who can appreciate your efforts.

Who said its to attract males :3

[โ€“] mayhair@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 weeks ago

It's giving Scott Pilgrim lol