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I think they've been watching too much porn.

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[–] Voltage@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Why can't he just say his son or stepson?

[–] Classy@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago

Correct take. "Wife's son" taken genuinely gives off very strong distancing vibes. It feels like he's trying to disown or reject his relationship to the stepson. It's kind of like when people say "baby mama" to refer to their current partner. No, there's no direct link between them and myself: we're just related by this other secondary relationship.

"my wife's _" is such a huge meme that it feels forced to even try reading it genuinely when a more organic way of wording it is available.

[–] saigot@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

IMHO you don't get to call them that until they call you dad, and that doesn't necessarily happen the moment you get married.

My mother in law married someone while my wife was an adult. She would never call him dad, and he would never call her daughter, that doesn't mean they aren't family or aren't close.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Nonsense, you call eachother how you see them. If my stepson doesn't call me dad that's fine, he's still my stepson

[–] Juice@midwest.social 58 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Cuckoldry has no temporal dimension

If a conservative's wife had sex with someone before she married him, the conservative is a cuck. In order to avoid this humiliation, conservatives advocate marrying children. This is consistent and inevitable logic

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

Pedocon theory is a theory like gravity is a theory.

[–] SelfProgrammed@lemmy.world 136 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (5 children)

Kaboom is a fascist. They've been posting a lot more and I think it's because the check from the Kremlin finally cleared.

I actually saw this guy replying to one of my comments in !trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone hard to believe he isn't banned sitewide there. They usually ban alt-right fash like him pretty quickly.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 69 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Yup! There's like 3 people who post in that fascist little community, and he is an open Christian Nationalist.

It's so funny to dunk on them though, because they seem to actually believe the bullshit that gets shovelled down their throats by the insane reactionary media they use to work themselves into a rage.

They think they portray themselves like reasonable scholars, but to anyone outside their little bubble they sound like bath-salt snorting weirdos. Anything that cracks that bubble is deleted immediately by the chief weirdo who mods over there.

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[–] Linkerbaan@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Kaboom gets his chèque from different Eastern Europeans.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

I consider genocide to be.the dictionary definition, not his cherry picked personal definition

[–] goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Idk. They seem the type to do it for free/love of the game

[–] SelfProgrammed@lemmy.world 21 points 3 days ago

I can't imagine anything more "snowflake" than posting from a server that has disabled downvoted. They have no idea how universally hated their politics are.

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[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 117 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Fellas, is it gay to have family?

[–] Clent@lemmy.world 46 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yes if the family has children that are the same gender as you and you love them; totally gay.

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago (3 children)

what if I only see them as friends?

[–] Clent@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Not gay but only if you say no homo anytime there is accidental physical contact.

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[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Only if you have a son, then you’re sharing her insides with another guy

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[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 122 points 3 days ago

Conservatives barely care for their own children, which explains their almost complete disdain for others' kids

[–] TSG_Asmodeus@lemmy.world 47 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Christ, Kaboom is embarrassing. Just on every level -- as a man, as a person, as someone on lemmy, as a person who making jokes, just everything. God he's embarrassing.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 26 points 3 days ago (1 children)

There really should be a word for someone who acts so tacky, but is unaware that they are doing so. I guess "conservative" will have to do.

[–] TSG_Asmodeus@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago

I think we need to use the 'bootlicker' word more, because we need to point out these are people stanning for rich people. So it's some combination of 'self-made slave,' 'cruel,' and 'tactless.'

Either way, it's like watching someone elses kid on the playground eating cat shit out of the sand box.

[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 55 points 3 days ago (10 children)

I’m ready for my interview.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 37 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Were you devastated to find out this way?

[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 57 points 3 days ago

Shook, is a better term, I think.

I needed a cup of warm soy milk to calm my nerves.

[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Is your username a Doc Scratch reference?

[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 days ago

No, DaddyScratch was the result of my real name into a Rap Name Generator back in 2009.

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[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 44 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It takes a real man who is confident and loving enough to take someone else’s child in and treat them as their own. I can only hope that whomever my ex-wife gets serious with will do this for my children when they are with her. “It takes a village” after all.

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Isn't the OP the bull? It's the OP's wife's ex who is the cuck. I'm not agreeing with the asshole but I think the definitions are mixed up.

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[–] L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 31 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Stop feeding the trolls.

You really refer to your stepson as your wife's son in casual conversation? That's highly unusual. You can't respond to a text conversation over the internet because you're going to go do something for an hour or two? This is dishonest as fuck, the guy is clearly mentally handicapped based on the post history and you're baiting him, be it consciously or unconsiously, so that you can farm fake internet updoot points.

Stop filling the fediverse with your reddit tier personal drama. No one gives a fuck that a moron is capable of typing a post on internet. You're acting a clown responding to it genuinely, and validating it with this blog post. This is how these people find the motivation to band together and make their little incel cults.

[–] kyle@lemm.ee 16 points 3 days ago

It's not actually unusual to refer to them as such, especially if they didn't go through a formal adoption process. I wouldn't say it's common where I'm from, but certainly not noteworthy.

I don't think we should feed the trolls either but suggesting OP is responsible for others making incel cults is extreme.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago

I'm not sure how successful they are at farming fake internet points when I'm the only other person who saw it and up voted it.

You ok bud? Maybe avoid this community if you don't want to see stupid drama? You know, since that's the entire point?

And for the record, laughing at reactionaries is absolutely the right way to deal with them; they are incapable of introspection, so exposing them as the fools they are keeps other people from falling for their bullshit.

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[–] Eheran@lemmy.world 32 points 3 days ago (2 children)

He never had a dad that cared about him?

[–] iltoroargento@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 3 days ago

I have a feeling you can change that question mark to a period of you want lol

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[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

JFC that guys comment and post history. And that doesn’t include all the ones that were removed

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 12 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Can't they just say stepson? It is still pretty funny tbh

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[–] SelfProgrammed@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago (3 children)
[–] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

They seem quite proud of it too, this was their response when questioned about it:
https://reddthat.com/comment/13725720

[–] SelfProgrammed@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Removed by mod"

Maybe they have been banned.

Maybe, that's weird, it's still up on my instance and they've been still able to respond
https://discuss.online/comment/11427017

[–] Linkerbaan@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Most recent stuff is denying the Genocide in Gaza and stanning for israel lmao.

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[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 7 points 3 days ago

Damn I thought I was the only idiot on reddthat.com.

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