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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 79 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The confrontation was the latest in a dispute between the two neighbors over Owens’ children playing in a grassy area near both of their houses. Prosecutors said Owens had come to Lorincz’s home after her children complained that she had allegedly thrown roller skates and an umbrella at them amid a long-running annoyance at their boisterous play outside.

I can't even imagine how hateful you have to be to behave as this woman did.

I will admit that I find "boisterous play" annoying to have to hear. But I also recognize that children need to play and it's my problem, not theirs. So I grumble and make jokes about getting a cane to shake at them. I don't assault the children and then murder their mother, Jesus Christ.

Of course, I'm also not racist, and I'm sure that was a factor here.

[–] orcrist@lemm.ee 8 points 3 weeks ago

Fights with neighbors, property rights, people get incredibly heated about it all. And often the only simple solution is to build a fence.

If you have no fence, but do have a racist with a quick trigger finger, this is not as unlikely as it should be. Which also shows why the Castle Doctrine is absurd, because it didn't help her here but it should not help anyone in similar circumstances, yet it often does.

[–] SeaJ@lemm.ee 61 points 3 weeks ago

I remember racists trying to defend this piece of shit.

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 40 points 3 weeks ago

I don't think in any other democracy than USA, could there be any doubt that this was outright murder.

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 26 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Here's a really good rule of thumb: don't shoot someone that you feel threatened by until they break into your house. As long as they are outside--and not shooting at you through the door--you are not in imminent danger. This is a situation where you can readily call the cops and wait. If the neighbor had kicked the door in and come inside, then we'd be looking at a legitimate self-defense claim. But you will almost never get to claim self-defense if you're shooting through a closed exterior door in your home at someone outside of your home.

If you're going to carry for self-defense, the most important thing you can learn is de-escalation, so that you don't murder someone.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Even if you are in imminent danger, maybe don’t shoot through a door to the outside? Responsible gun owners should be aware of the target and what’s beyond it. That’s really hard to do if there’s a door between you. She could have missed the person pounding the door and hit a kid or something.

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

My point is that it's not imminent danger when there's a hard barrier between you and them.

But yes, unlike cops, normal people are responsible for every single bullet that leaves their gun, regardless of their intentions.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca -1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Well, not unless you’re pretty sure you’re the only bluefor and the building is swarming with opfor… at that point I would shoot through a door. But pretty much only then

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"Opfor" and "bluefor" isn't a thing outside of military operations, and the military has entirely different rules of engagement than civilians do. I'm pretty sure that even cops intentionally firing blindly through a door are risking getting charged with murder.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

That was the point of my post

[–] el_abuelo@programming.dev 5 points 3 weeks ago

Did Oscar Pelistorious teach them nothing!?

[–] BigMacHole@lemm.ee 6 points 3 weeks ago

The ONLY ONLY LITERALLY ONLY way to have Prevented this was if the NEIGHBOR Shot the Woman FIRST! There's Literally NO OTHER WAY to have Prevented this! I'm also Pro Life!