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Trans being fetishised is frightening. You're a person, not a sex toy, and you deserve respect. Sexual assaults against trans can start with fetishising the community and it's vile. I agree with you about male gaze lesbian porn... ridiculously long nails, rubbing the clip like you're trying to start a fire etc... it's not how we do it!
Ive even personally experienced it, there a man I have the misfortune of knowing who sees me as nothing but a sexual object >~<
Why? Everything is fetishised, so why not trans persons? Actors have tonnes of fake porn shots out there, loads of people objectify the crap out of them, and it is all a fantasy.
There are LOADS of people out there with rape fantasies, look up CNC. That doesn't mean they want to be raped, it means they have fantasies.
Similarly, lots people have fantasies about trans persons. A lot of them, unfortunately, are the people who want to ban anyone from being LGBT (I guess these people are ashamed of themselves) and I think the world would be a lot better if people would kust open up a bit about their fantasies.
Human beings are weird and most of them are very sexual. I can understand that you don't like that, but you can't dictate what people like and not like
does that make it acceptable for you? making a cum shot of an unknowing actor doesn't make it ethical for me AT ALL
didn't like >25% of that content on some porn platform get deleted because it wasn't consented
I think there's a difference between having a liking for something, and acting like every member of that group are oversexualized and are only for sex.
treat people like people, not sex toys.
To me a kink or interest is different to a fetish. Trans are a vulnerable group who are at increased risk of violence, suicide and other mistreatment. I work in the VAWAG and IME people with a trans fetish are often just dangerous. It's not a scenario based fantasy, its objectification and ive often found they start with fetishising and move onto violence.