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"b-but bears are actually dangerous!" Shut the hell up.

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[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

You spelled it wrong, the sign should say "Safety is more important than feelings"

[–] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Why? The sign seems fine to me.

[–] Kedly@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Because thereal's version is welcoming and non discriminatory, and the meme is antagonistic by design

[–] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yes, it is antagonistic. But is it bad to be antagonistic to people who think that men's feelings are more important that women's safety?

[–] Kedly@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

Yeah, ok, with this response and your other one, I'm blocking you now

[–] Custodian1623@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Everyone's safety is more important than anyone's feelings.

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago

yeah this is something I can get behind

[–] Custodian1623@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You agree with the post, why change it?

[–] letsgo@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

To use more inclusive language, of course. That's what we're all doing now isn't it?

[–] Custodian1623@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Then the post wouldn't have meaning because that's a universally agreed upon moral sentiment on its face. The post is targeting people who would rather take offense to recent discourse rather than slowing down and considering how this moral sentiment applies to the situation. Without specifying 'women' and 'men' the post would not have contextual meaning.

You're free to make your own 'inclusive' meme that states the obvious, but the people this meme is targeted toward would see it as obvious and not consider how it pertains to their behavior.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It has the exact same meaning with the inclusive wording, without being adversarial for absolutely no reason. It would work just as well when said to a man getting butthurt over women choosing the bear.

The wording in the OP is hateful, even if it is saying something morally correct. This is not a "Black Lives Matter" vs "All Lives Matter" situation.

[–] Custodian1623@lemmy.world 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

That is exactly the situation. No part of this post is hateful; it's adversarial because women expressed a justified fear and men just "disagreed" because they don't like to think about it. The point is to be controversial yet morally correct as a statement. It would absolutely not work just as well if it was inclusive, people would just agree with it and no one would care.

Do you disagree with the statement? It doesn't sound like you do. What's the issue? Who is harmed by this post?

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 3 months ago

for the record, you are getting downvoted because lemmy is full of men who have not been exposed to feminist theory in any meaningful way. they probably think they are here in good faith but unfortunately are falling quite short.

you are absolutely in the right and i thank you for your leveled contribution to the discussion.