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[–] shneancy@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

be advised: this will not work with the majority of neurodivergent people

[–] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It me!

Which is also probably why I give this answer. Because it irks me to some degree that we just throwaway important questions like another human’s well-being.
If someone responds without being tripped up, I sorta know they’re my kind of person.

[–] shneancy@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

oh same haha, if someone asks me a question they're getting the answer, i don't care that they expected a "i'm fine"

[–] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 5 months ago

I just realized that I contradicted myself. I said that I use this with folks I don’t like, and then that when I use it, if someone responds well, that I know they’re my kinda people.

I don’t exclusively use it with folks I don’t like! I also throw it out playfully. It’s validating when folks respond in-kind.