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[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 42 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Tbf, the times I usually see it "hijacked" it's because of signs like "not all men but always a man" completely pretending that male rape victims don't exist, or comments like "men are trash" under the post. If I ever in my life saw a post about male victims that said "women are trash" or had comparable signs and women complained, I would see that as totally justified.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Rage bait. These posts aren't created to do anything other than get people mad at each other.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

Then again, Hanlon's razor.

[–] hydrospanner@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

There's also plenty of room in there for less malicious situations as well (not that the malicious ones you speak of aren't happening...they are...but there's other cases as well).

I think a lot of the problems arise based on differing expectations, and ideas about what a "conversation" entails.

Too often, it seems like a conversation means "let me voice my grievances, assign blame, and explain my ideas about why it's like that and what should be done...and didn't you dare to disagree with me or question anything or point out flaws in my logic, because this is my space!"

And hey, you're free to do that...but that ain't a conversation. Conversation means you don't get to dictate the terms completely to everyone else.

I feel like those who do this do know, deep down, that they don't want a conversation at all... but "everyone shut up, let me say my thing, then agree with me" tends to draw in a smaller audience. You might be right, you might be wrong, but, "Listen to me and don't say anything I don't like." isn't a conversation.