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[–] Plopp@lemmy.world 38 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Curious downvotes on this one.

[–] norimee@lemmy.world 48 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Lemmy is a quite misogynistic place.

Its often no fun to be a woman on here. They might rip you apart, if you say something slightly feminist (depending on where you say it). Made me think of leaving several times already.

[–] Anne@lemmy.world 40 points 2 months ago

Please don't leave! Keep speaking your mind, if enough of us stick it out we can drown out the users like Captain Asshole here.

[–] Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 28 points 2 months ago

I understand if you do, but I hope you won't. I like this place despite its flaws and I hope it won't turn into a far right community.

[–] Nythos@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Block anyone or any instance you find regularly being outright misogynistic and slowly, but surely, create a better place for yourself.

[–] MerchantsOfMisery@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The problem is that blocking only solves the smaller issue and basically sweeps Lemmy's sexism under the rug instead of addressing why sexism is so prevalent in leftist spaces. And I don't think it's up to women to educate men on this, it's up to men to educate other men on this. We have to keep in mind how exhausting it is for women to 1) deal with sexist shit and then 2) basically be told they have to teach men about [traumatic things that they've been through and shouldn't have to re-experience by talking to men]

[–] PetteriSkaffari@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Wouldn't sexism be even more prevalent in right-wing spaces? Or would you say that it's pretty evenly distributed over the political spectrum?

[–] MerchantsOfMisery@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago

Sexism is prevalent in right-wing spaces as well. I'd say it's more prevalent and predictable in right wing spaces, but it's still prevalent and IMO far more disappointing in leftist spaces from people who supposedly claim they're progressive.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago

The entire fucking Internet is a "right wing space" at this point.

[–] nkat2112@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 months ago

Please don't leave. We all need you here. (But I understand if you do...)

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

You're not alone! Please stay!

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

It fucking sucks. This place was great shortly after the reddit exodus. Now it's just as bad, if not worse.

As a man, are there any fucking online spaces that haven't been co-opted by right wing interests? I'm sick of this "red pill" bullshit infecting the minds of young men in every corner of the internet. Nowhere is safe. I wish they'd crawl back into the holes they came out of.

We are going fucking backwards and it's infuriating.

[–] norimee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

I still have hope.

On reddit there were also a lot of right wing nuts, incels and raging misogynists, but they tended to concentrate themselves into their own subs and echo chamber bubbles. If you kept yourself away from the "Manosphere" (like r/incels, r/MGTOW, r/MensRights..), the likes of TheDonald and the equaly disturbing misandrists of r/FemaleDatingStrategy it wasn't that bad.

I hope this wave of toxic behaviour towards each other is just some kind of growing pain and these toxic people will find themselves seperating into their own communities wigh time.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth -1 points 2 months ago

It's not just misogyny. I'm watching the sweetest, most kind user getting ripped to shreds for posting articles from MSM about candidates across the spectrum, who are of neither major party. The toxicity is wild , self-justification more wild. In the short time I've been on Lemmy, it's "gone to hell in a fast car and keeping it hot," as I hear a user elsewhere say. about certain topics. I'm quickly becoming of the opinion the up and down votes get discarded and a randomized ranking algorithm put in place.

[–] Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hopefully it was from the perspective that the comment is not helpful in reducing the number of murders of women.

I don't know, I don't personally see the harm in merely motivational comments or rants. But I thought it might be that.

[–] theacharnian@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I honestly have no idea how any Lemmy comment might be helpful at reducing the murders of women.

[–] Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

Maybe if they proposed some policy, or shared some stats and facts, instead of merely a statement of hope.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 2 points 2 months ago

Lemmy is filled with the most opinionated kind of Redditors and Russians it can fit on the servers, it's a moderator miracle it didn't go full incel.