the_toast_is_gone

joined 1 year ago

Maybe the real accessibility advocacy was the friends we made along the way.

I'm glad you're honest about what you think of me.

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

This was my entire camping trip because it was raining. It could have improved, but I left several days early because people were baiting bears into the campground and one nearly poked its nose into my tent at 3AM.

I am now safe at home playing solo Pathfinder 2e and STALKER GAMMA.

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

Jesus warned people very, very frequently against going to where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth AKA Hell. It was one of his favorite subjects.

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

Jesus told us not to judge others for the sins that we ourselves also commit. All the time we spend trying to decide the state of others' souls would be far better spent taking the logs out of our eyes before yelling at others about the specks in theirs. Other people's salvation isn't your problem, you can't force people to accept Jesus. (Especially after they have already died.) You can, and should, instead become a shining beacon of grace that attracts people to the faith.

Someone else mentioned whether or not Hitler is in hell. I really don't care if he is. It isn't my problem. Jesus saved a man who was right beside him in crucifixion moments before they died, but that doesn't mean I'm going to hang my entire faith on the salvation of a certain person.

If you're curious, you should read what some classical Christian writers have said about Hell. The best summary I can give is that it's a place of such unbridled, horrifying hatred that people will tear the flesh off their bodies and throw it at other people while burning alive because they hate each other so much.

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

I nuke Moscow. Can't fall out a window if there are no windows!

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (17 children)

There is hope for everyone to get to Heaven, but by no means should we on Earth be making pronouncements on which specific people are in Hell. That's way above our paygrade and I'm happy to keep it that way. People like this just make all Christians look stupid.

Integrity isn't just about doing the right thing when nobody's watching; it's also about being mindful of the consequences of your actions. Heck, I'd say that's the more important side. You might start dumping chemicals into the water without treatment because it's cheaper and there's technically no laws against it. But you're still going to be physically responsible when everyone who lives there starts miscarrying every single pregnancy and the town is abandoned because of your misdeeds.

I used to wear KN95s every day as a cashier during the height of the pandemic. It was noticeably more difficult to breathe through them, especially when I was working carts duty in the dead of winter. It also doesn't help that masks like this would need to be replaced pretty frequently for maximum effect because the moisture of my breaths will make them wet after a period of time. I could feel the condensation building in my mask throughout my 4-6 hour shifts.

Oh yeah, and if you want your mask to work properly, don't have a beard. Those will impair the filtration because air will get through your beard instead of your mask.

I feel the same way. The cost of getting sick for a week (however one measures that) is considerably less than that of getting a new batch of N95s or even just surgical masks every so often and wearing a new one every day.

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I would argue that what rights there are is inherently a moral argument. "Murder is not a right" is a moral statement, for example. The government doesn't change what rights it thinks there are without some kind of moral basis for it. Even if it's primarily done in the legal sense, we still generally act in the legal system based on a system of morality. Another example: "Compelling people to testify against themselves is wrong." It would be really useful for the state if they could do that, but legally speaking, the US recognizes that there is a right against self-incrimination.

Laws are written because someone, somewhere, found a moral fault in the law. It's just that some people believe that the only morality is power, and thus anything they do is justified. That's why we have the Bill of Rights: it's meant to stop people from simply saying "the government needs this power so we're going to give it that power." It isn't about creating rights, it's about recognizing and protecting rights that have existed all along.

 

Schools shouldn't be treated as these magical places where you're put in at some age and over a decade later you emerge a complete human being. You have parents and you spend more time at home than at school for a reason: you're supposed to learn from your parents.

A school can potentially give you a degree of financial literacy instruction. Your parents should be the ones paying your allowance money and driving you to the bank to get your first checking account. A school can teach you how to cook something. Your parents should be the ones eating your food and helping you cook it better. A school can show you some level of DIY. Your parents should directly benefit from teaching you how to fix the sink when it gets clogged. A school can tell you what kinds of careers exist. Your parents should love you enough to tell you that either your career ambitions or your financial expectations need to change. A school can tell you how to build a resume. Your parents should be the ones driving you to your job interview and to your job until you buy your first car. A school can give you a failing grade when you do poorly on a test. Your parents should be able to make you face the real, in-the-moment consequences of doing something wrong.

Expecting a school, public or private, to teach you everything you need to know is a grave mistake. You need people in your corner who are taking an active part in raising you all the way to adulthood and beyond. If you have kids yourself, that goes for them as well. If you aren't there for your children, to teach them the things that schools don't teach because they can't mass produce the lessons to nearly the same quality that you can give them, they'll blame you and the school for having failed them. And they'd be right to lay the blame at your feet.

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