spaduf

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[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

This is the craziest fucking thing I've ever heard.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Tankies are authoritarians. You know what they meant.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Being harassed and called a lib for criticizing their dogpiling doesn't feel like unity to me.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because I have moderated communities that live and die by the quality of their discussion and I understand that once you slip too far, you will not come back. Rabid circlejerky instances that promote dogpiling do not facilitate discussion and as a whole are bad for the health of the threadiverse. If people can't have a reasonable discussion here they will simply leave. That does not mean that I think hexbear should not exist, but they should probably be contained to their own corner of the broader threadiverse.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

overly concerned with civility or respectability

I for one do not mind admins that are concerned with civility or respectability. Forums should be about talking to people and I will always prefer to talk to people with civility and respect.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Ada has very poorly handled the response to her “people of NATO” statement in a way that leaves a very bad taste in my mouth regarding the administration of Blåhaj Lemmy. I have noticed that a comment left by a Hexbear user saying “death to Nazis and transphobes” is gone now as well, which if this was an act of a Blåhaj Lemmy administrator, further reflects poorly on Blåhaj Lemmy’s administration.

I really do not think it's fair to go after Ada about this. I think this is such a weird hill to die on.

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Hexbear Discussion Round 2 (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/main@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

I figured since their admin has asked them to stop participating over here it may be worthwhile to get a new discussion going that is primarily blahaj. I'm almost certain they'll still be upvoting so keep that in mind as that may skew things. Worthwhile to check in from instances that have already defederated them. The previous thread definitely left a bad taste in my mouth but what do y'all think?

Old thread can be found here


EDIT: With regards to the post on new federation guidelines here: https://hexbear.net/post/352119

The current top comment is:

Every instance that has talked shit and got dogpiled should be thanking us for breathing some life into their dead and boring ass websites.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/1409271

With women's fashion, it's an easy one with pockets and for some probably less sheer/thin or tight-fitting clothing depending on their preferences, but for men...?

What would you like to see done differently in men's fashion?

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This was my favorite album long before I knew what any of those words meant.

 
 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/1227654

That is, do you feel like your worth as a man is related to your practical utility?

 

From the article:

Sadly, the woman I briefly dated is not alone in her beliefs. In a survey of over 1,000 women, conducted by Glamour in 2016, 63% of women said they wouldn’t date a man who’s had sex with another man. (This isn’t just men who identify as bi. This includes all men who’ve experimented with another man, even if it only happened once!) Still, 47% of women said they've been attracted to another woman, and 31% of women have had a sexual experience with another woman.

NOTE: This is not the titular study but is used to establish context. The study can be found here: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2018.1563935?journalCode=wjbi20
If anybody happens to be able to find the fulltext please feel free to link it.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I understand the desire to automate this sort of thing and I can understand the utility at first but I think we should absolutely be afraid of that in long term use. Instead I think people should use the built in cross posting function to link conversations from different communities. I think this is a great way to build slow diffusion of communities into the fediverse.

See my post here for an example: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/217550

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been playing Syndicate and Origin and both run and feel amazing. Hard not to recommend waiting for the summer sale though.

[–] spaduf@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately front page is primarily made up of a transphobic/antiqueer sub right now.

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