pixeltree

joined 1 year ago
[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 13 hours ago

No it's actually laying your head in someone's lap and having them gently run their fingers through your hair while reassuring you everything's ok

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 13 hours ago

Cans of condensed chicken noodle soup is my mental and physical illness food. I keep a bunch of it in the cabinet. Having difficulty with solid foods? Soups got your back. Can't bear to scrape together the function to cook or order food? Worst case scenario, slap a can in a bowl and run the sink as hot as it goes to add the water if heating it's just too much to do

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 2 days ago

Try using tree style tabs, it's really great. Most websites are laid out such that there's tons of wasted horizontal space and vertical space is limited, so you increase usable screen space by moving tabs to the side. Additionally, with tabs at the top, the more tabs you have, the harder they are to read and keep organized. With tree style tabs, no matter how many you have, they're always maximally readable, and the ability to nest them and collapse groups gives you a ton of power organization wise. You can also easily hide the sidebar when you DO need the extra horizontal space. The ability to bookmark groups of tabs at once makes it much easier to keep close tabs you aren't actively using.

We spend so much time using web browsers, why not optimize them for human use?

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Get yourself someone who doesn't care you specialize in black forbidden magic

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 days ago

For my birthday I want my friends to throw me a surprise party where I get euthanized

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 3 days ago

I remember myth busters testing this

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago

You realize you're one of those notifications for OP, right? You could have just not made the world a worse place, simply by not commenting

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago

How dare you! You should only feed them food on plates, not in bowls!!!!

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 days ago

Tbh, the only connections you'll make with messages like this are fake internet doms who don't really care about you/your limits and try to push your boundaries. 0/10 would not recommend

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 5 days ago

The spirit of my comment being "if you're having fun with friends, who cares if you switch systems?"

Conversely,if you're not having fun with friends, then who doesn't care about the system? If it's getting in the way, then ofc switch.

Really, the core point is don't let the system get in the way of fun social time

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 5 days ago (6 children)

If you're having fun with friends who cares about the system?

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Timeline Questions (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Hey all, as I've been thinking about who I want to be and how I want to transition, I've gotten to wondering about people's transition timelines in general. If it's something you're comfortable talking about, how long did it take you from realizing your trans to taking steps to transition? When did you start using different pronouns, when did you come out to people, how long did it take you to know you wanted HRT and then to start it?

I realized I wasn't cis a few months ago, and have been growing my hair out and experimenting with clothing. I know I want to get permanent facial hair removal, and am interested in HRT but have reservations, and would value hearing others experiences about how long it took them to know what they wanted. I'm a very hesitant and self-doubtful person in general, and I guess just feel a bit lost in how to go about self discovery here.

Editing to say thank you very much all for sharing, seeing how different everyone's experiences can be is honestly really comforting.

 

When I can't find another and run out of savings in a few months, that's when Ill kill myself.

Honestly did a bit of a trial run last night, fastened a bag over my head and snuggled my stuffed animals on the couch to see what it would be like. It's definitely something I can go through with if/when it comes to it. Taking other steps to make life less unbearable first, hence the title. I don't really see my life ending any other way though tbh, just more of a question of when. If I'm lucky, it'll be when the climate change induced famine prices me out of being able to eat and I chose not to starve. Anyways, sorry for making you read this. Fuck.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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