I don't go at a frequent enough schedule to recognize the cashiers, I'm sure it's the same for them
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I'll just leave this here. Note this is also SF, a horrible place to drive: https://waymo.com/safety/
Brand awareness gets you subconsciously
You have a point but dude throwing everything in the fridge between two thinly sliced pieces of bread is amazingly delicious
There's a lot of micro-aggressions and straight up aggressions in this post, but honestly your comment strikes the biggest nerve for me. It genuinely shows that a portion of the world don't consciously see women as business owners
Yikes dude, hope you got a dashcam
Same boat. I'm yet to find a good response to that. On one hand, I want to be like "haha yea", but on the other hand, I want to be modest and not comment on it.. Which is just like an awkward silence. I usually just say something like "oh yea I used to live here" but even that feels like oversharing :p
So I tend to dress "well". I'm not great at fashion, but I shave every morning, force myself to spend a bit of money on nice tshirts, etc.
On the weekends though, I let it all go. I go out to the store in my PJs, I don't shave, I wear my hat and hoodie up, and to be honest look a bit like a thug. I notice people on the street are a little less comfortable walking by, however...
One thing that stood out insanely was the grocery store. When I dress like a homeless person, it is night and day difference:
- Cashier keeps the checkout stuff closer to them
- While my card transaction is pending, if I start loading stuff in my bag they're like "oh, oh wait.. It's still pending"
- Even when I start the small-talk ("How is your day going?"), responses are short
When I dress well:
- Cashier doesn't mind when I start loading my backpack even before paying
- Cashiers always smile and ask how my day is
I was planning on writing a blog post about it (plug to !dginovker_blog@lemmy.ml), but wanted to get more data points first
Crypto. Works great for everything I previously used PayPal for