FierroGamer

joined 1 year ago
[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago

Copium may be a meme, but it's an actual defense mechanism, we convince ourselves of reasons to soften the blow

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Helps realizing that it's not that she deserves better but your brain makes up that excuse so it's easier to dump her having an excuse you can believe in... Well, it helps getting over the impulse, it doesn't actually help the situation, I don't think.

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago

Yeah, seeing them as a person seems like a crucial part in that equation.

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 months ago (8 children)

I feel like the idea that women are otherworldly creatures instead of people and seeing someone being nice to their partner as "the man having tamed a female and convinced her to treat him well" has a lot to do with his problem.

I hate how much that is preserved socially, there's no good reason why that hasn't gone away at least a decade or two ago.

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Interesting! I never actually played it but I always thought the point was that it was shitty if you actually had to live that way, it's called monopoly after all

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If anything I would ask, I mean, is she really your friend if you can't confide something scary with her?

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago (6 children)

Dafuq is this meme? civilians are civilians, regardless of the country religion or whatever the duck they're born in.

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's reasonable to find a YouTube video of a couple making a mood color changing toilet seat, but the idea of an ancient maker fabricating some thing just because they can is straight up unthinkable.

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

That's amazing and encouraging, I want to hear more stories like this because when my kid grows up I plan on trying to guide him into not being tech illiterate, so far my plan is (more or less, but not exactly) to start him with a crappy but usable computer and give him upgrades he has to work for or tinker for, I feel like I learned the most by trying to squeeze performance and usability out of outdated hardware.

I don't intend to make him have my passion for computers, my intention is that he'll have the initiative to Google problems and the curiosity to solve them when it's not that easy, just having those two can get you 80%-90% there.

[–] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Get a tank printer, you can't DRM liquid (afaik). I have an hp one with tiny tanks, I refill once a year and the branded bottles aren't too expensive, but you can use generic inks, though I've read about people with the same printer having problems with the viscosity of generic inks, so you still need quality ink.

A downside is I have to print something every now and then to keep it from clogging (a month or two).

I don't necessarily recommend my specific model, but at least that type of printer, I've found it's been great. Software is kinda shit like any printer but I have Linux on my desktop so it doesn't really matter, shitty proprietary software is only needed for Windows (I have zero experience with Mac)