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I don't understand this weird American obsession with flag. I was looking at some photos of Trump's rallies. Flags everywhere - on shirts, hats, glasses etc. And this bizarre cult of the flag - "it cannot touch the ground" etc.

At the end of the day the flag is just a piece of cloth. If you worship any flag or take offense to any flag, you need to get a life.

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[–] Piatro@programming.dev 57 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Coming from a country that doesn't have this sort of thing it's really weird as an outside observer. Students have to swear allegiance to the flag every morning too which is the sort of thing I would imagine happens in north Korea or dictator states.

[–] Lime66@lemmy.world 26 points 3 months ago (2 children)

They don't have to. It would be unconstitutional if they did. What happens sometimes unfortunately, for teachers to sort of discourage not taking part, or potentially punish the student for an "unrelated" reason. The school I went to only did the pledge once a year though.

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I was suspended from school multiple times for refusing to pledge allegiance when I was in high school in the states.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago (2 children)
[–] JJROKCZ@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

No one tells children their rights and this country basically operates on the idea that they don’t have rights other than don’t be raped or made to work.

That said, kids get punished for not doing the pledge every day by power tripping teachers, they have for decades and will for decades more

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

It was a class rule that we had to recite the pledge. I was suspended for not following the rules of the class, not for not reciting the pledge. But this was the early 90s and I was more worried about not being beat by my mother than I was about my rights.

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[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 19 points 3 months ago (3 children)

That flag worship thing always seemed like a weird cult thing to me. I suppose Americans might not see it that way since they grew up with it.

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[–] Sparkega@sh.itjust.works 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

The context of the origin of the US' pledge of allegiance is it came shortly after the end of their Civil War when there was still a lot o political tension. A desire was born to instill national loyalty in children.

"Historians point to surges in American patriotic oaths and pledges to the flag after the Civil War, when tensions surrounding political loyalties persisted, and in the 1880s, as rates of immigration increased dramatically"

However, today as mentioned by another commenter, students cannot be legally compelled to recite the pledge, nor punished for not reciting the pledge as decided by the Supreme Court in 1943 using the first amendment as the base.

[–] MonkderDritte@feddit.de 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I mean, i'm swiss and we did a thing called "Geistige Selbstverteidigung", mental self-defense, with mythos of Wilhelm Tell & focus on independence in WW2. But we don't anymore. Why do you still do?

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[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Wait til you learn about the Texas Pledge!

[–] Wolf314159@startrek.website 47 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I'm no nationalistic fanatic of the flag, but is it really so difficult to understand that the flag is a symbol?

Obviously each flag, be they for nations or other groups, represents more than just a piece of cloth to many people. Taking offence at someone else's identifying with what a flag symbolizes is not okay. But, I tend to look skeptically at worship of any kind of idol, be it flag, cross, or text. That still doesn't mean it's okay to hate or persecute people for their beliefs, even if they appear silly to you and as long as they don't hurt others.

One group can demonstrate their respect for the nation by physically following some rules around the flag and others can demonstrate their loyalty to their ideals of the nation being violated by flying the flag upside down or burning a flag.

A flag or banner is not just a piece of cloth, never has been.

[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

you're absolutely right, and reminds me of the George Carlin bit, hopefully I've remembered it right:

"flags are symbols for the symbol-minded"

[–] best_username_ever@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

IMHO human beings are more important than stupid symbols. If you don’t respect humans and their non violent choices, the symbol lost all its meaning, especially the one about being the "land of the free".

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[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

Very well put.

[–] baduhai@sopuli.xyz 37 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I understand a flag having meaning. What I don't understand is kids pledging allegiance to the flag everyday. That's some North Korea shit.

[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

it's post-ww2, cold war-era creepy shit. Need to make soldiers and weed out the conspirators.

[–] masquenox@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

That’s some North Korea shit.

Nope. That's some American shit. And it was American shit long before the DPRK even existed.

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[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 30 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Warning: my takes on this are probably even more unpopular than the OP. I typically don't mention them to avoid whining, but since we're in a comm for unpopular opinions, might as well speak my mind.

A country flag is neither a symbol of your people, nor of the general population under the same government as you. It's the symbol of the government itself - an abstract entity, best seen as some sort of tool.

People who wave flags strongly remind me cows shaking their arses to show that they've been branded as property. "MOO! I'M PROUD OF BEING OWNED! MOO!"

Against the above, some might argue that their governments' flags used to represent some popular movement, or similar. Well, it is not your flag any more; co-opting symbols is bread-and-butter of exerting soft power over you.

And if you do feel the need of a flag for your identity... sorry to be blunt but you have millions of identities at your disposal; if the one that you pick is what subjects you, you probably need to touch some grass.

"But the president/king/minister said that..." - of course governments will tell you otherwise, it's convenient for them. But, most likely, not for you.

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 9 points 3 months ago (9 children)

I understand your view, but it depends on your country. In Denmark the flag is used in a different way in everyday life I think. And I would say there are good reasons to be proud of Denmark as a country and the people have done well to own the flag themselves in this way. But yea, it can also be used in bad ways.

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 3 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Sorry for the battering of rhetorical questions, but...

...what is "to be proud of a country"?

Achievements of people from the past? But you see people with laudable achievements through the whole world. Why specifically those associated with your country, instead of, say, another? And more importantly, why aren't we proud of what we, as individuals, do with our present?

Proud of a culture? I get that people relate to others sharing their culture; but contrariwise to what that Napoleonic meme says (with all its disgusting implications), countries don't need to coincide with cultures. Cue to Switzerland, a clusterfuck since HRE times, faring far better than a Portugal who has been culturally homogeneous since 1100.

And even demarcating cultures, gets tricky and arbitrary. It's all a bunch of continua. Eventually this sort of proudness will boil down to "I'm drawing the line HERE. This one is from this side of the line, so I'm proud of them. That one isn't, so who cares."

Is it being proud of your impact on others, through your everyday interactions? But most people in a country - even a small one (more like Andorra than Denmark) - are not meaningfully affected by you.

So, to keep it short: every single thing that we could be proud of, as human beings, is better serviced by either a smaller or bigger identity.

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[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I get it. It's not really a true choice though. Like bring born in the United States makes it difficult to move and become a citizen elsewhere, where I could waive a different flag (of choice).

It's a simple as being born into it and being prideful of whatever it is you are. Typical pride involves surname, race/ethnicity, religion, state, country, brands of things... I mean.. It's whatever one is proud of having. Some things are by choice and others are by birth. 🤷

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[–] Sir_Fridge@lemmy.world 23 points 3 months ago (1 children)

So a while ago an American who moved to the Netherlands asked about the proper way to store the Dutch flag.

The consensus was: put in a little plastic bag from a supermarket and shove in the back of a random closet.

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[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 23 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (8 children)

The national flag. What a weird American obsession.

[–] FelixCress@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago (17 children)

In the UK we call them "flag shaggers" and they are laughing stock.

If you are not trolling and you genuinely don't see the difference between occasional flag use and everyday cult typical for the USA and for the far right in other countries, you may be even slower than you appear from your comments here.

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[–] ASDraptor@lemmy.autism.place 7 points 3 months ago (4 children)

In Spain, unless it's for a sports event involving a national team, nobody except fascists show the kind of devotion the Americans show for the flag. Most of the time, people don't go wearing a flag or carrying one everywhere. Unless they are fascists.

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[–] lseif@sopuli.xyz 18 points 3 months ago

and a book is paper and ink. but it's what it represents

[–] chemicalprophet@lemm.ee 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

And nationalism is astonishingly thinly veiled racism.

[–] Hugh_Jeggs@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

"There are two types of patriotism, although sometimes the two are mingled in the same breast. The first kind one might call nationalism; nationalists believe that all other countries are inferior in every respect and that one would do them a favour by dominating them. Other countries are always in the wrong, they are less free, less civilized, are less glorious in battle, are perfidious, prone to falling for insane and alien ideologies which no reasonable person could believe, are irreligious and abnormal. Such patriots are the most common variety, and their patriotism is the most contemptible thing on earth.

The second type of patriot is best described by returning to the example of General Fuerte. General Fuerte did not believe in ‘my country, right or wrong’; on the contrary, he loved his land despite the faults that he could so clearly see and that he labored to correct. It was his frequently stated opinion that anyone who supported his country when it was so obviously in the wrong, or who failed to see its faults, was the worst kind of traitor. Whereas the first kind of patriot really glories in his own irrationality and not in his country, General Carlo Maria Fuerte loved his country as a son loves his mother or a brother his sister."

--Louis de Bernieres, 'The War for Don Emmanuel's Nether Parts'

[–] kevindqc@lemmy.world 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

When Fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in the flag and carrying a cross

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago

There is no when. Fascism is already here.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 13 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Nationalism is part of fascism. Just a FYI, it used to be illegal to make clothes out of the US flag. It's only because of capitalism that it changed. And yes, any nation that goes flag crazy is stupid. Why do people fly a flag at their residence? We know what country we are in.

[–] CitizenKong@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago

There is a reason why you see flags in Germany only for big sporting events usually.

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[–] mriormro@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago

Symbols are incredibly powerful things. It's pretty easy to understand.

[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 12 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Buddy of mine visited after some time in the army and I had to stop him from beating some other dude's ass because they accidentally let their flag graze the ground barely, I'll never understand loving the symbol of the people you supposedly joined up to protect over the ACTUAL FUCKING PEOPLE themselves. Thankfully, that behavior and the PTSD he got from being in the middle east for a while seem to have subsided.

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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I'm an American and I don't get it either.

My daughter got in trouble in the fifth grade for refusing to say the pledge of allegiance in class because, in her words, "it's stupid to say a pledge to a flag." I didn't teach her that, she's just a smart kid. For non-Americans, it is illegal to force a child to say that pledge, which was decided by the Supreme Court in the 1940s.

I let her shitty permanent "substitute" teacher (yay Indiana teacher pay being shit) know about this supreme court case and told her that if she got in trouble again, lawyers would get involved. She got super apologetic and claimed that my daughter wasn't in trouble, she just took her out in the hall and had a private talk with her about it. Which is totally not punishing a schoolchild as everyone clearly knows. She never apologized to my daughter, but I knew she never would and I didn't bother to push it.

My daughter never stood up to say the pledge again, as was her right.

Fuck the flag, it's cloth, like you said. Americans should be revering the founding document and its amendments that gives them their rights, not something designed so that friendly ships wouldn't fire cannons at each other.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 months ago

also the pledge was invented by a flag salesman to sell more flags.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 10 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Whats funny is the flag fanatics are disrespecting it from a historical perspective. Paper plates and napkins dirtied up and tossed. Crumpled up tshirts tossed into bins or crumpled up on a floor.

[–] Facebones@reddthat.com 5 points 3 months ago

All of which is against the flag code too, but while they'll attack you for letting it touch the ground they'll lose it if you can them out for their flag trunks cause laws end when their convenience and desires begin.

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[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Unless youve never noticed, America has a huge Nationalism problem and always has. Drive through any subdivision and you'll see flags on many houses. Go to a sporting event and you'll see the National Guard in some capacity. America has always been a nation that skirts the edges of Fascism just waiting to be led there.

Source - a Canadian that has been there to smaller towns many many times.

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The flag is just a symbol for the country, and the country is something are can be proud of if you have nothing else worthwhile to form your identity around.

[–] Godric@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Flags are just cloth, words are just symbols or hot air depending on the medium, and cars are just metal and plastic.

At the end of the day, everything is just atoms. If you disagree, get a life.

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[–] khaleer@sopuli.xyz 5 points 3 months ago

People tend to care more of a fucking piece of plastic trash (most of flags are made of just shitty plastic btw) than other's people lives. Not without reason "patriots" rhyme with "idiots".

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It's some creepy as fuck shit for sure BUT it allows us to identity the weirdos and avoid them.

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[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 4 points 3 months ago

The success of flags on https://canvas.fediverse.events (!canvas@toast.ooo ) still shows that it's a way for people to identify.

Interesting to see how New Zealand tweaked their own, though.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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