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A new report from the Institute for Strategic Dialogue (ISD) has found that digital hate and harassment against women rose rapidly after the U.S. presidential election. Sexist phrases like “repeal the 19th [Amendment]” and “get back to the kitchen” surged on platforms like X, TikTok, Facebook, and Reddit following President Donald Trump’s victory over Vice President Kamala Harris. Many of the most frequent comments involve calls for a decrease in women’s rights, while others have explicitly threatened women with sexual assault and harassment. Mentions of the statement “Your body, my choice”—a direct response to the reproductive justice movement’s slogan, “my body, my choice”—grew by over 4600 percent on X. The phrase also appears to have grown in popularity offline, with parents and students reporting groups of boys chanting it to girls in schools. One parent commented online, “Today my daughter was told three separate times on campus ‘your body, MY choice.’ The third group of boys told her to ‘sleep with one eye open tonight.’”

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[–] Shdwdrgn@mander.xyz 136 points 1 week ago (3 children)

This started on Wednesday, almost immediately after Trump's victory was announced. By Friday it was already being reported in grade schools because asshole parents enjoy raising asshole sons, and Trump tells people that it's ok to be the absolute worst human being they can be.

I have a friend who is a hard Republican. We generally don't talk politics, but after this started last week he was posting things online being offensive towards women and POC (and the whole "illegals took my job and healthcare") so I finally had to call him out. His response was basically that he wasn't aware of any increased discrimination happening against women, therefore he didn't believe it was happening. I've known the guy for 40 years but this may be the thing that breaks our friendship. He claims to be an advocate for people's rights yet he is painfully unaware of the world around him.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 108 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Republican

advocate for people's rights

You really can't be both at the same time.

After this election I've had to cut a bunch of people out of my life, even relatives. A lot of them saying such wonderful things as "trump's just saying things, he doesn't actually mean anything he's saying." And then they'd get defensive when I'd ask them why they votes for him then if he doesn't mean anything he says.

It's really hard to cut people out of your life but afterwards it's amazing realizing that you don't need to tip toe around things that may be vaguely political (or explicitly) anymore to not start an argument.

[–] Twitches@lemm.ee 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

People that vote for the violence against the people I love have no place in my life no matter who that person is.

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[–] TheGrandNagus@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Republican

advocate for people's rights

You really can't be both at the same time.

Of course you can, you're just missing the subtext:

Advocate for people like me's rights

Right wing beliefs have always been about empowering the "I'm alright, Jack" types (I don't know if that phrase is known in the US, but here is an explanation if not). Purely for helping the powerful stay powerful, at the expense of everyone else.

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[–] aesthelete@lemmy.world 83 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] nomous@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (3 children)

That already happened to like 90% of us thanks to the same cultists.

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

I'd love to see a real effort to stop genital mutilation of all babies. When the most visible time men speak up about it though is when they insert themselves into a conversation about women, it does not build sympathy for the issue.

I mean this sincerely. If you are at all serious about stopping the genital mutilation of babies, I suggest you rethink your strategy.

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[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dude. I think circumcision is barbaric too, but there's a fucking time.

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Your rectum, my steel toe. Your eye socket, my bat... My choices for their bodies are endless!

[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 80 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I remember reading some headline that reads:

"alt-right women frustrated at alt-right men about their misogyny. seeks change within the movement"

or something like that.

Leopard. Face. Etc...

[–] TheGrandNagus@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

I remember that too. I also remember reading a headline about a Brazilian far-right group travelling to the US to join a KKK meeting, then being upset that the KKK weren't particularly welcoming towards them.

The stupidity is absolutely incredible.

Was it this one, from 2017?

[–] DmMacniel 79 points 1 week ago (5 children)

woah, what the fuck americans?

[–] schizo@forum.uncomfortable.business 79 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

The really gross part is this is firmly not just Americans being stupid this time, and has somehow become The Thing To Say Online for the whole damn planet full of incel types.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago

It's the 'boiling over' part. Seems to be ramping up, and we're sure to see a lot more of this coming.

There are, indeed, a lot of foreign Trumpites, this is not just on America.

[–] DmMacniel 34 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah it's fucking disgusting. Do they not have a mother?!

[–] Boddhisatva@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago

Not one they love or, I imagine, that loves them.

[–] Eldritch@lemmy.world 42 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Who did you think we were? This is who we've always been. They're just getting comfortable taking the mask off again. Trust me, my grandmother and other family were put through the racist indian boarding schools. Common throughout the US and Canada. You know, the ones they keep finding mass graves on. The more things change, the more they stay the same. Just more subtle, less in your face.

Most people thought are too distracted with bread and circuses to care however.

[–] DmMacniel 17 points 1 week ago

execuse me for a sec, for I gotta puke.

[–] Dead_or_Alive@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Na, it will only take two years.

Trump tariffs will crater the economy in a year.

Massive round ups of migrants both legal and illegal. Killing farming and destroying families.

Musk well being Musk and chopping the Federal Budget,

50,000 vetted loyal Trumpists ready to take over the Federal government.

Matt Gates in charge of the Dept of Justice leading Trumps Vengence tour.

RFK Jr starts peddling raw milk and makes vaccines illegal.

It’s gonna be fucking LIT. I can’t wait to tell my half wit Dominican coworker who voted for Trump “I told you so” when their family gets deported. I can’t wait to tell my idiot sister in laws who voted for Trump, I told you so when the government programs they rely on (including Obama Care) get wrecked.

Of course I’m going to suffer too, I’m stocking up on N1 masks, food, toilet paper and bullets… but holy shit I’m going to be saying I told you so in the nastiest most demeaning way possible for the rest of my days.

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[–] yggstyle@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago

The lizard brains always existed. Inbred, maladjusted, loud angry hateful fucks. We used to be able to suppress them. We ceded the helm of this nation to a bunch of corporations and their puppets in congress. We've been trying like hell to fight this multi front battle and are just taking Ls across the board.

We are burning books. Banning knowledge.

We are entering an environment where many do not have the luxury of having an opinion.

Speaking for all of those who were still trying: We're sorry. We're still here. We still care. But we're fighting a losing battle.

Speaking for myself... I'm fucking tired man. I'm not the only one. People I've spoken to all are effectively the same: resigned to what comes next. There isn't enough unity in this mess to right the ship. That unity will come with desperation... and we're not there yet. 4-6 years. Maybe then. It's got to get a lot worse before we unify over the collective mess we're all stuck in.

[–] Xanthobilly@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think some of this is being amplified by America’s enemies to drive division.

[–] yggstyle@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You are 100% correct. The problem is most of the public has lost the ability to discern the difference between truth and fiction. Not their fault specifically: most of even the most technically literate would struggle to fact check what our ~~news~~ media and feeds dump on us.

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[–] lolrightythen@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

It was always there - we merely lost the fight on making it shameful to say in public.

[–] aceshigh@lemmy.world 59 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’ve started getting cat called at night while walking my dog. I live in a red area and I dress crappy and I’m middle aged. Today I decided to change my walking schedule and location.

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[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 51 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My daughters have to live in this shit hole now. I am both angry and sad that it appears we are moving backwards.

I will fucking end someone if I hear them say this or anything like it to my daughter.

[–] Apollonius_Cone@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I never understood since women could vote that there isn't a woman's political party or movement.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There isn't a workers' party, either. The US is one of the few industrialized nations that doesn't have one.

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because our democracy is stale

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[–] threeganzi@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

Because the first-past-the-post system makes it very unlikely for more parties to emerge.

[–] hornedfiend@sopuli.xyz 41 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My brain is always struggling with upping a post,when the context is so vile. I just don't understand how could this kind of angry POS people exist and the education their parents are giving them.

[–] Brylant@discuss.online 13 points 1 week ago

They don't give any education. That's it. That's the problem. Parents don't talk with kids and/or assume that kid will raise itself if it gets enough freedom, exact opposite happens in 90% of cases. You will understand the problem even more when you remember how many kids are bullied in school and growing frustration is a consequence.

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[–] cranakis@reddthat.com 39 points 1 week ago (1 children)

.... platforms like X, TikTok, Facebook, and Reddit.

What are four platforms I will never use again Alex?

[–] yggstyle@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

And while you'd be right to do so- make no mistake that there are posts on every social media platform with the same exact goal in mind. This one is no different.

We are entering into an era informational noise. The signal is still there but it is fucking faint in the storm of misinformation and ai/seo bullshit it is being transmitted into.

[–] masquenox@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Th 4B movement isn't a political statement. At this point, it's simply self-defense.

[–] zephorah@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There is nothing wrong with being a gun owner so long as you do it responsibly. This means going to the range weekly and not just putting it in the safe after buying it.

Handguns are there because you lack the upper body strength to fight off an attacker. 4B stops no rapist.

[–] masquenox@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Handguns are there because you lack the upper body strength to fight off an attacker.

That's not what firearms are. They are killing tools. Plain and simple. Not "self-defence" tools. Killing tools. The US military does not provide it's personel with firearms to "self-defend" themselves from rape.

4B stops no rapist.

How does a handgun stop a woman from marrying a rapist or ending up in a relationship with one?

Your understanding of the term "self-defence" isn't based on reality.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We have reached a great filter for society. If you are a woman and care about your rights you just need to know how a man voted to determine their value. You gotta dump if they voted for Trump.

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[–] VerbFlow@lemmy.world 31 points 1 week ago

They include the phrase being directed at them within schools or chanted by young boys in classes.

Young boys are following the misogynist Pied Piper and all the parents are just letting it happen. FFS

[–] GhiLA@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

2024

The last year voicechat was enabled on my copy of Team Fortress 2.

you don't wanna know

Yeah, due to the nonexistant moderation TF2 voice chat tends to be the most intolerant thing I've ever heard in my life.

[–] ChronosTriggerWarning@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I really, REALLY hope i hear someone say this around me. I'm still trying to decide what choices i will unleash on their body....

[–] AllHailTheSheep@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 21 points 1 week ago

I really hope to see more women buying weapons to defend themselves. Don't be defenseless ladies.

[–] Gutek8134@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Now let's all make sure it won't escalate to the point of current South Korea

Edit: I have no idea how did my autocorrect change of to I'd

Relevant videos by Moon Channel (warning: LONG):

[–] M600@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] shani66@ani.social 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Without even clicking the links; they are videos about the insane sexism and fragile masculinity in South Korea.

Edit: i was right! Specifically they are about how god damned pathetic Korean men are. They can't even see a self insert male protagonist in a phone game without screaming that they are being cucked. They make our incels look like the picture of healthy masculinity.

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