This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.
Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.
Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.
Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.
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Drag was banned from !tenforward@lemmy.world a day ago. As you can see, no comments or posts were removed alongside the ban:
In fact, drag has never commented or posted in the community:
Drag has no history of transphobia and no history of trolling. And drag can unequivocably prove that drag was never transphobic or trollish on Ten Forward, because drag has never said anything there. This is a ban for literally, provably, nothing.
I'm not entirely convinced you're not talking like this to take the piss, to be honest.
Yeah, this feels like a bit. They might be the type of person to role play different out there characters and rotate through them when they get bored.
Drag never uses 'I' in sentences to refer to themself.
They have a comment saying they are using 'first person pronouns', by which they mean that they are using custom, or neopronouns when referring to themself in the first person.
The grammatical problem with this is that the 'pronoun' they are using is their own nickname.
Which functionally reads as them referring to themself in the third person only, akin to the deprecated 'royal we'.
This kind of behavior is common in people who have extreme social anxiety, or dissociative identity disorder.
It's probably not a bit, a put on.
They are consistent in this odd grammatical pattern, and they seem to believe it is genuinely justifiable and socially acceptable.
Drag states that they are autistic, and trans.
They are probably legitimately mentally disordered.
... I used to date a trans person with DID, amongst other diagnosed conditions.
This kind of extremely confusing, unconventional grammatical structure was something they exhibited as well.
Drag never uses 'I' in sentences to refer to themself.
Dragon Fucker never uses 'I' in sentences to refer to Drag.
The reason it feels like a bit is it isn't consistent with conversational usage, even as you pointed out them talking about themselves. (Or Drag talking about Drag). Or Dragon Fucker talking about Dragon Fucker.
There is a possibility this is a real person committed to a lifestyle and not a role player, but then I would suggest we are the test bed for their new unconjugated universal pronoun... and it feels fake, because its wildly inconsistent and confusing.
Buddy, you harassed the mod of that community, you misgendered his daughter and he brought receipts in the last thread you made to show what you did. In addition you've been referring to other people using your own drag pronoun, (probably as a substitute for you/your/you're) which for people who do not use your pronoun is indeed misgendering.
Honestly I know the ethics of preemptive bans are questionable at best but with the past behavior you've exhibited I can confidently say it was not for nothing. Not by a long shot. I'd say you should get used to being banned from places if you continue to have interactions like the ones you've had with @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world with other people.
In short YDI, You Deserve It, big time.
Oh no, you were banned from a community for doing something in another community. Whatever will you do apart from move on with your life.
Activity in other communities is irrelevant. This is a shitty R_ddit habit I'd like to see everyone on Lemmy drop.
While I generally agree, this is less about activity in other communities and more about harassing the mod and general reputation. Another person who posted to all the same communities would not be banned.
The mod posted a Stalin-style ideological purge thread. Oh dear.
Careful, this might get you banned from lemmy.ml 😄
OK locking this one as well. Y'all need to behave and try to be more charitable interpreting each other's words. Realize you don't need to engage drag if they try to argue with you. If you want them to not reply to you, please tell them to Disengage or even better, just block them. Likewise if you want to report for sockpuppetry or harassment, please provide some evidence in PMs as there's nowhere enough to go on in report strings.
