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[โ€“] cmac@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

This is why, as a native English speaker, I just never express my emotions.

[โ€“] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 months ago

When someone says my name with the correct pronunciation and accent ๐Ÿ˜ณ how do they know my true name

[โ€“] MajorSauce@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Similar here, my partner and I are mostly talking in English for non-important/silly stuff and switch to French when things said are serious/important. A way to separate real/serious from joking/sarcasm.

Makes sense: English is a completely unserious language.

[โ€“] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

You jest, sir, but this is the reason I purposefully got a British therapist instead of using my native language in therapy.

[โ€“] jqubed@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

English is my native language. Iโ€™m reasonably fluent in some parts of life in French but I feel like if I were to try to have a deeper conversation about something like emotions I would struggle to find the right words. Is that kind of what makes it easier for you non-native speakers that are identifying with this post?

[โ€“] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 months ago

I couldn't find the exact article I read before, but I found one talking about how processing discomfort through an L2 was less emotionally distressing than in the native lang

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02699931.2018.1540403