I envy woman for being able to walk around with a bag the size of a phone without looking stupid.
Bruh stop caring what people think and carry a bag if you want.
I'll never understand why guys bitch about not being able to do something because it's not perceived as "manly".
If you're secure in your own masculinity then you wouldn't give two shits what other people thought about carrying a bag, what you drive, what kind of dog you have, or any of that stuff.
Don't worry about projecting the appearance of a confident man. And just be confident in yourself bro.