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From the webcomic "Pepsiaphobia" by Daisy McGuire
If I could push a button to change my sex I absolutely would, but I don't have it in me to transition on the outside and deal with the societal consequences. So I just stick with androgyny as "close enough".
I'm with you there, though I would push that button like every other day. I like being a guy, and I think I would like being a girl about half the time, though ideally I'd control two bodies simultaneously all the time.
Sounds to me like you're genderfluid.
This sounds like boymoding. Is it the same thing?
I've never heard of this in my life so you tell me haha.
It's like when you are trans MtF, transitioning, but stay closeted and dressing like a male and going by male pronouns... Even while bodily changes take place. The idea being you can one day wake up and put on a dress and you'll just be a girl and you can come out of the closet to... People who had the opportunity to notice these changes in you for a long time.
I feel weirdly called out...
That's what representation does to a mf. It's alright.
You and me both.
Status update: Mold accepted.
And what about you?
fact of the day: all trans people have fungus in brain
fun Gus? =D
Sometimes I think it’s just me wanting to be hot and sexy. And, well, I think goth girls are hot and sexy.
I just want a vagina between my asshole and balls. Is that trans? IDK. But I think it would be pretty cool.
Too many holes for one person. You would be an affront to all that is good and just in this world.
I've heard it's possible, and some trans people get it done, but I haven't really looked it up.
It's called phallus preserving vaginoplasty. I had wondered about it for a long time and only discovered what it was called the other day so I've been reading a lot about it.
That was me for soo long! I'm glad I finally came out to family and friends. And so far everyone reacted positive!
Trans imposter syndrome?
I've had this conversation! This is where a lot of tranaphobia came out of me. Like "yeah I wanna be a girl, but not trans - trans people are freaks. I'm not like them." Fortunately, trans people have very good representation now.
I was really lucky to have met so many great trans people at the perfect times... And it didn't change much for me. It was, and still is, about accepting myself. So many conversations about it, yet none led to me doing anything about knowing I'm trans.