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Like, I travel around for work and I've met plenty of people from all backgrounds.

Why is there a demographic of people who don't seemingly bathe regularly, or at the very least wear something to cover up their BO? I could understand if it's an allergy, or even religious reasons (though the people I've met that smell bad are usually you're average American young adult man) but recently (like in the past week, recently) I've met a concerning number of people who don't seem to wear any kind of deodorant or possibly don't even bathe regularly; it's starting to become an issue for me, as I don't even want to interact with them when I can smell them walking up from 3+ feet away yet I need to for work.

Does anyone have any possible insight?

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[–] Buchling@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

A deodorant does not replace washing your body. The combination of both smells is the most terrifying. I hate the smell of all deodorants, so don't use them. But I shower sufficiently, you won't smell me from a distance. Promised.

[–] TheGreenGolem@lemm.ee 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

How much distance are we talking about?

[–] Buchling@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago

You choose. Plus I bet I won't like to smell your deodorant. Like most perfumes others are applying. Worst is if deodorant or perfume is used instead of washing yourself. This last comment is not on you by no means.

[–] SecretPancake@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago

So I shower relatively regular and definitely before I go out meeting people. But deodorant I keep forgetting since I started working from home when Covid began. I don’t go out often and for going to the grocery store I don’t care, so it’s not ingrained into me anymore. But I don’t think it’s so important since I just showered anyways.

[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

How do people not smell bad?

My clothes are drenched within a few hours, if I’m sitting somewhere then there is a puddle under my feet in less than 30 minutes

Even in the shower I’m dripping/have BO while using soap

[–] sirjash@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Wait... what? Do you live in the Amazon or something? You should probably go see a doctor

[–] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Canada

I was told not to worry about it

[–] catboss@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago

That's irregular. Have it checked by a medical professional and get a second or third opinion if you already were at the doctor.

There is cases where the underlying reason can not be discovered. Those are usually harmless. Pretty much all cases where an underlying reason can be determined can be tested for and for almost all of them should get you medical treatment. They reach from not good to serious danger to your health.

[–] Kazumara@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Regular bathing isn't what you want, frequent bathing, that's important. What good is it if someone bathes with great regularity on the first of every month?

[–] PhineaZ@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago (2 children)

It appears that a number of people in this comment section just downvote everyone that does not use deodorant for any reason. As a test: Deodorant never quite grew on me, I started hating the rather extreme and sometimes even pungent smell as a teenager. I shower (twice) daily to every third day depending on season, daily routine and other factors.

[–] skeezix@lemmy.world 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I can almost smell you from here

[–] PhineaZ@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago

Oh right now you definitely can, I am currently very sick and can barely get out of bed. Smelling non-sick is NOT a priority right now.

[–] PhineaZ@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago

It seems my test was successfull. Probably the same 4 people everytime.