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That might work once or twice but if you're apologising 10 times a day, I don't think you're getting off that easy.
Then work on that.
An apology is just that - an apology, not an explanation.
Who wants to hear someone's excuses "ten times a day"?
If you're fuckin up that much, you got a lot of work to do to not fuck up so much.
Talking about in the meantime. Working on this bullshit takes years if not decades. In the meantime, I have to react SOMEHOW when I fuck up, meaning I can apologise or try to explain what went wrong so the other person doesn't think I'm a total piece of shit AND apologise.