Off My Chest
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It's tough, it sounds like besides the age difference, he's alright. I totally get why it gives you the ick though. Your only complaints about him being overbearing probably comes from him also recognizing the awkwardness of the situation and overcompensating trying to be extra nice.
Yeah. My daughter says that's just his personality with everyone. And she loves that about him. The fact that he has a "good heart" as she puts it - you could call him up at 3 in the morning and ask for him to come and help you with something and he'd do it, no questions asked. She feels "protected" and that she can "depend on him always". He came with us to visit my parents (daughter's grandparents) in the countryside and he chopped wood and made the fires for them (their house is heated using firewood). Being a total city guy - that really impressed my parents; the fact that he wasn't snobbish at all (used the outhouse without issues) and he was so willing to help around.