I mean society seems to think so? Frankly also I just typically get uncomfortable with people peeking down at my crotch. I don't generally wear tight pants for that reason because I'm not looking for that kind of attention.

[–] Sas@beehaw.org 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's just that the focus goes a lot more to nipples. If you wear a tight shirt with external secondaries you better wear a bra or be prepared to get started on or even get shit from people.

[–] tweeks@feddit.nl 2 points 2 months ago

Yeah, we live in a weird world based around absurd prudish values. I do believe it's increasingly less frowned upon in some European countries, especially Denmark in my experience.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Just become a dentist, have a midlife crisis, and start riding a bike.

[–] Benaaasaaas@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Instructions unclear started riding at 28 with lycra while on my fat ass.

[–] Timecircleline@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Psst you can buy men's stretch jeans that are regular fit- they don't need to be tight to be stretchy pants.

[–] tacosplease@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

This was a real game changer for me several years ago. Never went back to regular jeans.

[–] Twitches@lemm.ee 1 points 2 months ago

Imma have to look into this thank you

[–] TwinTusks@bitforged.space 6 points 2 months ago

I am fat, and I dislike tight clothing.

[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Well, there are men's ballet leggings and whatever folks wear to your local renaissance festival, but I see your point. Neither really has the fit or look of women's athletic gear or cozy/comfy stuff.