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[–] whostosay@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Well fuck, that's rough. Take a bit to find out why and work on it. Best of luck to you

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh I know why, it's not like I couldn't find a relationship if I tried, it's that I think I'd be a terrible partner and my presence in someone's life would make it worse and I'm not willing to do that to someone. Struggling incredibly with ADHD and I don't think I'd be able to give a partner the proper time and attention due to the need to shovel stimulation into the black hole that is my brain, and I have bad depressive crashes, much worse than the baseline misery, that no one can help with and make people who care about me feel bad and guilty about not being able to help. Things have to improve a lot for me to seriously consider dating, and at this point I know better than to think that could happen.

[–] whostosay@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Gotta work on it. There's someone for you, I know it's cheesy as hell, but theres a ton of us and all of us get lonely and have the same issues give or take.