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[–] Hegar@fedia.io 52 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A patient I dealt with had schizophrenia and dementia, "but I'm a man, not a little girl with panties" was his counterargument to everything.

You can only have one cigarette at a time because otherwise you lose them all and run out. "But I'm a man."

You know the doctor says your food needs to be cut up. "Do I look like a little girl to you?"

That's the communal cheese bowl, this is your plate. You can't eat from the communal cheese bowl with a fork. "Do you see me wearing panties?"

Whenever I hear people making these kind of gender essentialist arguments, they just sound pitiably out of touch with reality to me.

[–] danny801@lemmy.world 38 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Have you asked him how often he thinks about wearing women's underwear?

[–] Revan343@lemmy.ca 27 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

That's potentially worthwhile with someone who is cognizant but just an asshole. For someone with dementia, there's no point

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 5 points 20 hours ago

I don't know what it says about you if you do it deliberately but I think there's a lot to say for asking the question anyways because his speech filters don't work properly and he might not be able to censor himself.

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 30 points 22 hours ago

In my head I made many cutting remarks. But the reality of this level of cognitive decline is like 90% miserably depressing and only like 10% infuriating. Plus he wouldn't be capable of understanding the criticism anyway.