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I know it sounds kind of corny, but when I met her I physically fell for her. She was sitting on a desk and I tripped over an extension cord in front of her. We knew of each other but we never really talked until that day. She laughed and asked for my number and from then on we hung out everyday. Eventually, I realized that I was happy just being with her. I'd dream about her, I'd think about her, I'd want to see her. But, I kept it all quiet until we both graduated. We hung out afterwards when we both moved to the same city for different university's and I couldn't be happier. But, we still weren't together. Then, I moved to another city, she stayed, I eventually confessed but she was going through an identity crisis and wasnt sure if she was into me anymore. Then 6 years passed with no closure. We reconnected through a mutual friend and laid everything out. I told her I fell in love with her. She told me she felt bad for how things ended. And, we decided to just be acquiantences and leave everything behind. I'm trying to forget her completely but even to this day I think about her. We talk briefly once a year or something for work mainly but I still love her. She's still in the same city we both moved to for Uni but other than that, I don't know too much about her anymore.