Some people like to be victim, some like drama and some are Mimosa on behalf of others. Augenmass is needed in such cases, instead of joining the drama.

[–] sukhmel@programming.dev 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Augenmass? Keeping distance or something?

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Crap, it's only used in swiss and austria?

Ability to be prudent in certain situations.

[–] sukhmel@programming.dev 5 points 1 month ago

Well, as they say, "common sense is not very common", but thinking a bit before rushing in may always do good.

::: spoiler about the "quote" It actually should read

It is sometimes said, common sense is very rare

as written by Voltaire, it appears, but I didn't know that and only met derivatives of this quote.

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm 4 points 1 month ago

It's not, but then I'm Bavarian. What do I know about the rest of Germany?

[–] Soup@lemmy.world -3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No?

Yes, sometimes it’s better to just leave the shitty person to be shitty but not calling people out also validates their shitty opinions. I’m glad you’re in a place of privilege to just ignore it but maybe practice your own fuckin’ augenmaß and butt out if you don’t have anything constructive to say.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You're a bad example of what i said.

[–] Soup@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Sure thing, bud.