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Cool, we caught a live "not all men" over here!!
Not exactly, if you want me to blunt I am saying that if everywhere you go there are assholes, then the asshole is probably you. You being a woman is inconsequential
Friend, it's not that this is a fact, it's that you brought it into the conversation. It's also genuinely not all men either, the problem is that every time a woman speaks up there's a chorus of men ready to respond "Not All Men" instead of actually listening.
This criticism only really works when it's a woman speaking of their personal experience with men, not when it's someone making a generalisation about all men.
Nothing was brought into the conversation, it was an all men/ not all men thing from the beginning.