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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] VirgoSnarker@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (5 children)

She’s just so predictable, making this all about her.

I’m sure this was hard for most parents - many who won’t see their kids for months. But it’s so thoughtless to cry about it on her public platform.. her daughter is in a new place trying to make new friends, I’m sure some follow her mom 🫠

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Too busy crying to notice her instagramreality reddit post hit 5,000 upvotes. The post is currently blowing up on the Guelph reddit. Guelphites aren't Birds Papaya fans.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

The comments on the Guelph Reddit!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

I’m so happy she’s finally made it onto the Guelph reddit page!! The more traction this gets the better.

ETA: one commentator on the post made me think it was Shane for a hot second. I even looked at their comments elsewhere and lots of magic the gathering stuff, etc. but other posts of theirs steered me off of thinking it was Shane.

Also if someone has the shrinking Shane video, you should post it on the guelph Reddit post!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I love how she got her Reddit page shut down and as a result has evolved to now spreading awareness to multiple Reddit subs and Lemmy 😂

[–] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 months ago

Not gonna lie, I had no idea who that person was before you all came here, but that's kind of a hidden blessing 😄

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago

I’m just waiting for a spiral in the coming days. Her PMDD is going to make a comeback after months without a mention.

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Same! I think I know who you mean! I think there was one random Brazil comment that made me think maybe not…but who knows lol

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Yupp the Brazil comment and they had a post about their kid turning 1 (obvs L is older than that) and looking for places to have a party. Unless they make other posts to throw off the scent and looking too obviously like Shane haha.

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Guess where they’re going to go see the eagles play?

Gotta be him.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

I called them out this morning and asked why they’re defending her so much. He said he didn’t like seeing someone be piled onto this much. Give me a break, claims to know nothing about her yet doesn’t like people piling on her even though we’re justified.

Maybe it really is Shane’s burner lol

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

It’s a real shocking coincidence where she wants to take him to see the eagles play, then. 🇧🇷

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

I love this for her!!

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago

😂 I love this for her

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago

This is amazing! I’m going to pop in and look at the Guelph Reddit!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

People of Guelph pulling out yearbooks….please please please.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

We have a hero in the comments. Probably only knows from her Church days.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 months ago

She’s only been super kind because she got something she wanted from them, then onto the next grift

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

It’s probably a bought family member.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Jfc I can’t stand watching her cry!!!! I can not even imagine setting up my camera to have a cry like this. Her face hardly moves, it’s all too much. She is so desperate for attention. M probably feels like crap over leaving just because of this performance.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If I’m blunt, I just want to smack her face so bad lol

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am sometimes a little overwhelmed with the disgust I feel when she acts like this. She has her older kids 50% of the time and very often flippantly chooses to travel “for work”, like she did this week, all for her own glory. Did she miss M then?!

I wonder what happened to Sarah when she left home?!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 months ago

This is how I feel. Her over the top drama performance over her kid going to school 10 mins away is simply far too much. I feel like she’s making her loyal flock think her daughter has gone off to university far away and it’s legit the hardest thing she’s ever done, when in reality she’s just down the road. Like you said, she has no issue saying yes to every event that takes her away from her kids but god forbid her daughter go off to university without her having the worst acting performance of all time over it. Like get a grip honestly. She needs attention so badly, that’s why she acts like this because she just wants people flooding her inbox with words of sympathy.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago

I wonder if her face moved and her crying looked less forced we might believe her.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Her daughter is in the same city FFS! She is so attention-seeking!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Did I miss it or has she not disclosed to her followers her daughter is literally a 10 min car ride away??

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

As far as I know she hasn’t mentioned it - she’s letting them all think M is in another city

[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

AND coming home every weekend !

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago

The last thing M needs is for anyone new she meets to find her mother’s IG!