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[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm 27 and seriously questioning if I'm actually gay or just some flavor of ace with an aversion to most sexual acts. I haven't had any sexual contact with a woman except for a single kiss, so I don't know if I can be sure yet. I absolutely despise the touch of men. It took 3 boyfriends to realize that men disgust me in regards to phyical/romantic/sexual contact.

[–] Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Did you try looking at photos of naked people?

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Yeah. Dicks are disgusting. Naked women are attractive in all aspects. Porn is great if the focus is on the woman and her enjoyment. But I can't get over how gross oral seems. Like, idk if I could handle it. The thought wigs me out.

[–] Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 months ago

Sounds like a clear cut case to me: you're lesbian. Not sure why you are doubting.

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You might just not like oral. Asexuals don't find people sexually attractive. They can find them aesthetically or romantically attractive, though.

[–] pixelscript@lemm.ee 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

What do you call a cis male who is sexually attracted to the conventionally attractive female phisique, but once it actually gets to acts of sex or porn that depicts it, all interest is completely lost?

Asking for a friend...

[–] Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

A straight man who doesn't like sex.

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That is like the exact opposite of demisexuality. I had to look it up, but it is under the Ace umbrella, and I think it might be Fraysexuality.