sunflowercowboy

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[–] sunflowercowboy 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sounds like a positive move because of your individual choice as an end user. Now you're not locked to the apple ecosystem.

[–] sunflowercowboy 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I am being heavy handed with my wording for the sake of metaphor.

You as a person need to tame another in order to cohabit the same space, while at the same time taming yourself. You will sacrifice for them and they you. You hope to give them tenfold what they have you, in hopes they know how loved and cherished they are. You must communicate, lose, and evolve in order to win a together that is more fruitful.

It is the same as loving your mother, if not - I am sorry she did not capture your heart. That is not a slight on you, just a sad reality that can exist and I am fortunate in this regard. My siblings were not.

I speak of love, not men or women. It is a concept beyond gender and most humans.

[–] sunflowercowboy 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

You can become friends with regulars and then ask them out if you desire, but you also involve more of yourself at risk in the question.

Compliment people, be normal, do it without further engagement. That is the issue, men tend not to speak up unless interested so you are easy to read. Women like surprises, it's not shooting your shot if they already saw your gun.

Learn to appreciate the beauty of all before thinking of capturing one. You will have to communicate with them. Compliment something unique, something deliberately done, and something genuinely appreciated. By them or by you.

Just speak up truely.

[–] sunflowercowboy 6 points 1 week ago

I told people to vote to at least halt the hate machine. They involved gazan lives and said I was to blame.

I still don't understand how, I cannot vote, and have nothing but time in this fragmentary calmness we feel. I just wanted them to appreciate their days at least.

[–] sunflowercowboy 21 points 1 week ago (6 children)

He's at work, be professional at least. He also doesn't know the person, but if he was just some random dude you are still inconveniencing a person slightly. They say no, you are inconvenienced back.

Your workplace is for work, not for interfering with people trying to use your service. You can become friends with regulars and then ask them out if you desire, but you also involve more of yourself at risk in the question.

So just don't. Go to public gatherings or places of interest, where people have a common understanding of at least socializing. Having a friend already diffuses the situation or possible tension that an engagement can form.

[–] sunflowercowboy 5 points 1 week ago

So can I call dibs on declaring myself the second coming? Got the name.

[–] sunflowercowboy 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Highlighting the importance of individualism even in communitarian beliefs.

You must have your taste so that you know what you need and want genuinely. Rather than new emotions being better. This is important to acknowledge as there will always be thoughts of neighbor has it better due to just differences.

[–] sunflowercowboy 1 points 1 week ago

Thank you for hearing me, I am lost in pain from death. What you wish will cause a lot of death, I wish it too. However I wish more that humans be ready. The change will have more pain, and when the dust settles it will continue and it will not be enough.

You can have a bigger impact in 4 slow years than you can in one grand day. In those years you might not see the progress being made because you are no longer the most pained. You are no longer the child for which humanity obsesses.

You wage war constantly, the severity has only now become apparent. As a child in this country, I hid from UPS for thinking them ICE. So much has waned and yet nothing has changed has it?

They realized it too and used religion as a guise, both for them and you. It gives you someone to blame for being happy, so they can hate you purely for being destructive. That's why I write, love them and they will become confused, self destructive and implode. Show them kindness, but never be disarmed. It cannot be fake, you have to see the absolute pain this animal induces upon itself, it's future, and their kids. For the sake of a grand today.

Rather than 4 long years.

[–] sunflowercowboy 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Those are my concrete goals, they are small and simple because that is the life I lead. I apologize if you looked for goals that would preserve your position in life without sacrifice.

I do forget. I spend hours usually on one response because I need it to mimic my mind truly. While affording me reflection that these thoughts lead to. I can tell you concrete goals and they won't be enough for you because you are illusioned by any possibility of freedom. While I believe we are born indebted, only to accrued more with each passing meal.

You take it as a basic right, but it can only be upheld through the means of many people. However, by dividing rather than at least accepting a halt - you are impeding the chance of reflection. A chance of meaningful change being done, because progress is slow while destruction is swift.

You are always one act away from throwing your life away, that is the ease of destruction.

However happiness is a construct maintained and worked for, not easily given. Suffering will persist, the hope is to divide it equally.

[–] sunflowercowboy 1 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Yes and I am not a democrat so I can only answer for what I think, and what I would do with such time. I have no concrete answers, I am but an aspirant of hope.

You buy time that is all you can do. Avoiding fascism is a constant ideal to be upheld. Why do you buy time? No one can force you to do it, but when you appreciate some of the things you have, and that is all you can do. You submit to it.

However, one cannot submit to this regime. The regime wants your will to be broken. It is not defeated through blind denouncing of one's innate responsibility.

I am personally just helping those I can because I have not much ability beyond that. You have a stronger capability, and that is why I do not want you to give up.

[–] sunflowercowboy 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because the genetic variation is confused and muddled by foundational things they can't understand.

Simple things like family structure and the importance of it. A lot of autism overdiagnoses are purely from the developmental differences; economic class, quality of life, nutrition, exposure, and obviously parents or lack there of.

For example, simple acts like kids getting to play in the dirt exposes them to beneficial bacteria. Which I could also see laying the groundwork for gut bacteria. With how common kids do try and eat it, along with developing nations cooking with it, seems at least conceptually plausible.

I believe in autism and am not denying its existence as my fiancée has autism.

I am more saying that there is a huge upbringing differential that can cause kids to experience trauma. Trauma that can give the same responses. Social media enables this issue by pushing kids who don't have access to self identify, pushing a false representation. However, it is good for kids to be trying to put the pieces together - they just need help.

[–] sunflowercowboy 0 points 1 week ago

Narcissistic no, I am much too pathetic. I am no one and that is okay, however my name makes me deluded I can ask people to be kinder to each other, more forgiving, and more appreciative of what they do have. It makes me have hope it will be.

You have now, you have family, you have love - let it blossom. Make your mark on this world but never do it while profiting from the downfall of your neighbor. You are someone beyond the pain you feel, beyond the suffering you induced, beyond the agony you see.

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