Übrigens, wer es nicht mitbekommen hat: Schwarzfahren soll bald keine Straftat mehr sein 🥳https://www.zdf.de/nachrichten/panorama/kriminalitaet/schwarzfahren-straftat-ordnungswidrigkeit-buschmann-100.html
laughingsquirrel
joined 1 year ago
Ich feiere das, was ihr geschafft habt, und es gibt mir ein Gefühl von Verbundenheit. Wir bekommen Positives vermutlich zu wenig mit, dabei gibt es so viele, die sich stark machen! Ich sende dir eine Umarmung!
Ich werde auch im Ernstfall in Deutschland bleiben, ich möchte dieses schöne Land nicht aufgeben, nur weil ein paar laute Menschen es in den Abgrund ziehen.
I learned way too late about the fertility cycle of my female reproductive organs. What, I can feel my cervix, if I just reach into my vagina deep enough?! And oh, so during my fertile days, my vulva will get slippery, my cervix is soft like my earlobe, and my cervical mucus becomes stretchy like egg white?! Also, my body temperature rises?! And on the not-so-fertile days, my cervix is closed, feels harder (like the tip of my nose), and none or less mucus. That's wild, so much to learn about a body that I thought I knew!
(You can use these observations to contracept or to become pregnant, but if you do, please inform yourself about Natural Family Planning (NFP) or the sympto-thermal method. It takes a routine and some experience for it to be reliable, but once you get the hang of it, it is awesome!)
I can understand your perspective, but I want to offer an alternative view, maybe less bound to societal preconceptions. I married my partner for many reasons, financial, wanting to raise a child together, wanting to share my life with them... But staying married for the rest of our lives is a crazy concept for us. The marriage has its purposes, but we both know that life can change and that we could decide that we had a good time, and that now the time has come to move on. A marriage is less romanticised for us, it has practical reasons. I guess being polyamorous helps with defining new relationship ideas on many levels ;)