dazedandconfused

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[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Interesting. Any concerns about the safety? Not all 3D printing materials are good for extended contact with skin.

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Woof woof, my guy.

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I tried it once and it kept getting disconnected. What did you use that worked well?

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 months ago

This is thankfully my last travel that was planned. Tbh most people over clean for anal which can take longer and actually make you more dirty!

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Woof is like tapping on Grindr. Kind of an informal "hey, what's up" or "I find you attractive" with no expectation of a response. Agreed scruff isn't a huge population compared to some apps but they're pretty cute and willing to have a chat instead of hooking up right away.

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 3 months ago

Nice! Please share some highlights.

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Hot. What kind of chastity device do you use?

[–] dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

The theme was back-to-back fun, which is kind of new for me.

The first week was in NYC and filled with oral fun:

  • Nice fun-sized bottom came over one afternoon to suck my cock. One really interesting thing: he was lying down on his belly naked while I lay back and let him do his thing. Apparently sucking my dick in that position was hot enough that he came on my bed from the friction of rubbing up against it lol. I haven't had that effect on someone before :-) Also he really wanted to deepthroat me more, and he was so surprised when he kind of coughed up clear stuff he said, "woah, just like in porn, it's clear." he cleaned it up himself, of course.
  • The next morning a cute oral/side friend came over and also gave me an awesome blowjob. I like when a cocksucker understands that with patience (and no hands) I will, in fact, cum. I helped him cum by playing with his balls and nipples, they're superbly sensitive - so much fun.

Second week I am in Portland, OR for a conference. Things were really unexpected for me. My special friend J from LA was supposed to be here for at least one night and day together, but he had to cancel his plans last minute. Yes, it made me quite sad.

  • One night after some really strong cocktails I was kind of drunk and a local guy still wanted to come over for naked hanging and cuddling. About the same size as me, but uncut.
    • When we started making out and stripping clothes, he very quickly decided to straddle me and start riding me! I didn't know I could get that hard and horny while drunk.
    • After him riding a bit, he wordlessly moved us to a big spoon/little spoon arrangement lying on our sides.
    • And I don't know what came over me, but I put him down on his stomach and lay my whole body on top of him and pounded really hard for a while. I loved the feeling of being totally snugged up against him and inside him, and somehow even though I curve up I didn't slip out once.
    • Growling and grunting in his ear, lightly biting his shoulders and back. Finally bred him when I couldn't take it anymore.
    • Transitioned back to a sideways position so he could jack off and cum while I was still inside him.
    • Notes: I'd never successfully topped in either of those two positions before, and to do it with alcohol in my system, no less.
  • The next night another hung vers guy wanted to come over. Again I had had quite a few drinks, and wasn't sure what was going to happen. About the same size as me, but uncut. Nice balls.
    • Enjoying making out, he started to play with my ass, when I let him know I wasn't clean for that, he said "oh well, wishful thinking" and quickly transitioned to riding me, like the guy from last night.
    • He also wanted sideways fucking, which after a little while, I put him face down, slightly hanging over the edge of the bed. My hands up on his back while we fucked pretty hard. His verbal was awesome.
    • Moved back and forth between different positions (him riding, him face down), and finally we both came by jerking each other off and swallowing each others' loads.
    • Cuddled and chatted for probably an hour or more afterwards. He's a sweet guy.
    • Note: I haven't topped two days in a row before -- I didn't know I could. That too late at night when I was super tired and also somewhat drunk. This is new information!
 

Like it's actually fun. A few folks at work know I broke up with my girlfriend of some time recently. When I later asked them to let me know if they know anyone nice to set me up with, I always use gender-neutral language. But every single one pretty much assumes women only, and frankly I'm okay with that. Everyone doesn't need to know everything. If they ever asked, I'll tell them.

However, the married gay guy made sure to ask me, "are you into girls, guys,…?" and people I felt so touched and seen that someone didn't just assume. He says his mind is tingling with ideas, and I'm sure if he and his husband make any intros they'll be great.

Finally, I totally have a work crush on a guy, and I feel so stupid about it. My work crush at my last company was also a smaller guy who kept it tight, which is a funny theme. This time though I'm pretty sure he's gay, based on a few different things including a pretty sexy insta. I just want to hold him and carry him around, and now I feel super weird when I see him or make eye contact. Ha here I am almost 40 and this guy still has me horned up like a teenager. Maybe one day I'll build up the courage to say something to him. Non work dating and hookups are so much easier though!

Anyway yeah, basically being in the closet at work is…fun!