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Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe you're right...still expierencing culture shock

Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

There's the nod down which is for men you dont know and the nod up for men you do know from my expierence

AHHHHHHH in c/random@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Ahhhhh

I'm procrastionating. AMA in c/random@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 16 hours ago

holy shit ive been here a month

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AHHHHHHH (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

ahhhhhhhhhhhh

Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Something funny (and not funny) that happened to me is that someone who did not know I was trans thought I'd be transphobic because (presumably) I'm from the south and shared with me all of their shitty opinions on trans people in private thinking I'd agree with them

Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 16 hours ago

It's interesting how both are oppressive in different ways

Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I mean it in the sense of being percieved as not-man, not nececarily trans.

How do i control acne in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

i didn't interpert it that way

Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 17 hours ago

i don't think it's objective fact but it does make me feel that way sometimes, yeah. Maybe it's a cultural or age difference.

How do i control acne in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I shave my face for the peach fuzz every couple of days but I cleanse it beforehand. Ive been eating a bunch of sugar which probably isnt helping

How do i control acne in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

That's good advice

Insecurities in c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone
[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago (5 children)

being clocked is when someone notices youre trans against your will

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Insecurities (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

After moving states to a much more progressive one i feel like i get clocked all of the time here, whereas back home that rarely ever happened. When i pass by male strangers they dont do the nod thing to me. its very disconcerting. I get they'd by people who don't know me. I wish I could know what it was that makes people clock me like that. It feels like I'm not man enough here. Not being stealth feels like being naked. I don't like it.

Part of me wants to talk about my experiences as a trans man because it is a unique expierence that needs to be known, but at the same time I feel like as soon as I tell people I'm trans I automatically become Man Lite™ and a bunch of assumptions are made about me. And then I'm not man enough and am not treated as any other man would be treated. I wish T would do its magic already.

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How do i control acne (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

i have a decent amount of acne after starting T. I wash my face every night with a cleanser scrub thing but still get lots of blackheads and pimples. Any tips at how to minimize this?

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Ten months on T, not a single facial hair (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

ive been ten months on T, got plenty of new hair everywhere except my face. havent even gotten one new hair there. all the men in my family have no trouble growing facial hair. why tf am i not getting a single one

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I'm procrastionating. AMA (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/random@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Update: still procrastinating

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How's your transition been going (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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New freckles on T (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

I've been having new permanent freckles appearing on my body since starting T. Is this a thing anybody else has expierenced

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Pictures post transition (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

I've noticed that when I used to see myself in pictures I'd hyper assess every little detail of it to check for passing. Now when I see myself in pictures I don't do that anymore. Anybody else notice the same thing?

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Know any transmascs? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/15223477

We need more transmasculine people (and people in general) on here. If you know a transmasculine person please get them to check this place out. Spread the word!

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Know any transmascs? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

We need more transmasculine people (and people in general) on here. If you know a transmasculine person please get them to check this place out. Spread the word!

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13 Essential STP Packer Tips (transguysupply.com)
 

Annoyed with tgsupply for very long order wait times and being out of stock of almost everything I was gonna get but this article is helpful nonetheless.

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