Xaphanos

joined 1 year ago
[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 22 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You missed "become poor" and "have his family turn on him".

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 20 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I wonder how that new truck was paid for.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Time is the coin of your Life.

It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent.

Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you.

And when you spend it, spend it wisely so that you get the most for your expenditure.

~Carl Sandburg

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

This is the best in a while. So earnest. So perfectly innocently confident in SovCit Truths. And so about to slam into reality in a painful way.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

About names: My lastname was changed on my great grandfather in a unique way. My fullname (and my son's) is globally unique - and rather long. I had considered changing it, but I already have to sign a lot of name affidavits whenever a legal or financial issue comes up.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Thank you for seeing me. Some days, the worst is the feeling that all of the struggle is not only insignificant in the end, but also invisible. I think of all of the rest that are in situations like me and that I'll never know them.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Most of those are due to COVID. Not that he didn't make it all worse...

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I'm doing the exact same.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Rough patch.

My wife is going through chemo for colon cancer. Prognosis looks good. But the treatment is hell. Halfway through next week.

Her aunt lives with us. She has Parkinsons. Starting to really slide. Needs bathroom help every 2 hours - 24x7x365. No one sleeps much here. She'll need to go into assisted living real soon now. Will she live longer than her money? Maybe.

My kid is 14. Good kid. Smart. Well-intentioned. But 14 is hard. And he's a total slacker.

My mom just had gallbladder surgery at 80. She's recovering well. But lives on her own and needs extra attention. We all worry she will need to go into assisted living, too. But she's mostly broke. Not good.

The place I work was bought out a few months ago. My job is likely safe through the end of the year. But after that... well, we all know how it usually goes. At least my wife's chemo will be covered until then.

I'm over 60 and overweight with HBP. No heart attack... yet. But that can't be too far off.

So... plenty of pressure all around. But I manage to keep to the Stoics' philosophy and accept the world as it is. Be patient and kind and let things happen as they happen. I keep trying to loose weight.

Either we get through this, or we don't. But I can easily accept that we all did our best.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Really? I'd love to see those replies here, too.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I have an old-school D&D campaign planned out. 1st-level, rural town. Like a reverse scooby-doo - small trivial problems like lost livestock resolve to hint at deeper mystical evil. As they level up they'll find dark cults and demonic influences. The peaceful rustic countryside is far from what it seems.

But the players never get it together enough to set up a good date. The last campaign was fun, and they all said they wanted more. So I just keep writing more NPCs and extending the setting.

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