Eyedust

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[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 15 hours ago (6 children)

I did try to get into DotA once, but trying to queue in for a game at early levels is a hell of a long wait. I might pick up Smite again. Though I think Smite 2 is out or coming out soon?

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 16 hours ago

It used to be. Riot added a kernel-level anti cheat called Vanguard. Almost a year ago now I think? But yeah, that shut down League of Linux and it will remain that way unless Microsoft stops allowing kernel access, which they hinted at but I'm not holding my breath for it.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 16 hours ago

Thank you. It only took 18 years to come back to it, lol. But Linux fascinates me, tbh. It felt really strange at first, but after about a year it feels like home.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 16 hours ago

I have a friend who does dev work and swears by Apple, but he does use Linux on the side as his main machine. Ever thought of diving into NixOS? I've used it for a few months and really enjoyed it once I could read and write nixlang.

I don't dev that much, but apparently it can run reproducible environments for nearly every OS and you can have multiple environments via flakes. Need one for Golang? Need one for React? It can do it. You can even access it from your mac. I don't know much about that side of it, though, just that it can.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

Neovim is my poison of choice, as well. I never thought to use it like that, though! Even though its not open source, I can't stop using Obsidian for notes and prose, unfortunately. I just like it too much. But my novels are all written through novelWriter, which is an amazing application and has a package for every distro, afaik (Fedora was the last, but it was just added 3 weeks ago).

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 16 hours ago

Yeah, I hear you there. I have pretty much every Brand and Vlad skin and a skin or two for almost all champs. I have so much blue dust that I'll never need to buy a champ again even if I never broke down anything from now on.

The itch to play hits hard every now and then, but its getting less and less. Especially now that every new champ is just 2-3 different champs sewn together.

Its a disease and I'm glad I'm out of it. Now if I could stop blowing cash on PoE MTX...

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 21 hours ago

Lol, its just my manga/anime apps. You can still find some of the repositories on github, but they moved all updates to TG. They also request users to not put the app name on any social media to avoid what happened to Tachiyomi.

There's a large sweep going on with anime piracy atm, too. Github has been obliterating apps left and right.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 22 hours ago

In that case, your partner should find a solution to their sleeping disorder. I can open chip bags, do dishes, drop things, watch TV and there's no issue if my partner is asleep. And our apartment is small. She is a deep sleeper though.

I'm the light and agitated sleeper, actually. And instead of lashing out or pointing fingers, I got it addressed. Now on bad sleep nights I take two hydroxyzine for anxiety and light sleeplessness two hours before bed. I sleep so hard I tend to drool everywhere. Normally I'm a high anxiety jaw clencher when I sleep.

I highly recommend looking into something like that. Hydroxyzine is a very light and harmless option. Its an antihistamine, which makes it good for allergies as well. Its basically a strong benadryl. There are some other benefits as well, like muscle relaxation, pain relief, nausea relief, and airway opening.

As someone with ADHD and sleep trouble, it works good. Doctors are pretty relaxed about prescribing it, since its very high on the safety meter and non-habitual. Sorry for going off on a tangent, but it seems like your partner could have a slight sleep disorder, especially if its gone so far to put you both in separate rooms (if that is the case).

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 23 hours ago

I would also like to add that if the newest Proton version doesn't work for a newer game, you should grab ProtonUp-QT. Sometimes GEProton will work or else come out with support faster than official channels.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The real question is, do they HAVE to be there for them to go to sleep? Because if they needed to sleep, what stopped them? Sounds to me like there's a sleeping problem here and that's not OP's fault.

I don't see any way that OP messed with their sleep. A simple "I'm going to bed, try not to be too loud when you come home." would have done wonders. Then OP could chat, come home, do whatever chores quietly, and go to bed.

Whether you have a job or not does not relate to what privileges of freedom you get.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I really don't think its your ADHD here. I have it bad. My partner lets me get on with it and goes to bed whenever she wants. We also split chores based on our schedule and to account for my ADHD she got us a whiteboard, because my greatest super power is to get absorbed in something and forget everything. Your partner could have taken the chores that night so you could do what you needed to get help for yourself.

My last relationship was a "need to be in bed at the same time" relationship. I remember when I worked nights and had a night off. We got into a huge fight which culminated into me going to lay down on the couch instead of next to her like she wanted. She then came out of the room and beat me around the head with a metal katana sheath (so hard that it dented).

This is a less of your ADHD problem and more of a "you guys need your own schedule and space" problem. You should iron out this attached-at-the-hip thing first. It's cute in the beginning of a relationship, but can ultimately end it in a very ugly way. It will lead to insecurity and turn into a relationship of need and envy. You gotta learn to exist alongside each other, not be one entity (despite what marriage and religion tries to tell you).

I've had two relationships. One for 7 years where we had to do everything together or else had to check in via text. That ended in both of us fighting and cheating (both sides) and never talking again. The second is a quiet coexistence. We can tell each what we're going to do with an open invitation. Sometimes we do it together, sometimes we want to do something else. That relationship is on 13 years and counting. We RARELY go to bed at the same time or wait up.

Sit down together and apologize for the belittling things you said. Explain what you have written here to them. These are words they need to hear. And then address the problem of not being able to do things like sleeping without one another. If they wanted to go to bed at 9:30, they should have been able to do so.

[–] Eyedust@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

A lot of my favorite open source android apps have been switching to CodeBerg. Some of my less than legal ones have moved to Telegram, unfortunately. That aside, CodeBerg is great and hopefully it will gain even more traction soon.

It's nice that Obtainium supports CodeBerg, too. I have a few must-have apps that I like to keep up to date straight from their repositories.

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